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There isn’t much information about escalation by texting.
If you do text escalation right, you can either
(i) Screen for girls who just arne’t into you
(ii) OR (better), prime girls who ARE into you to be ready for sexy time, straight away
Here’s what to do
1:/ Meet girl
2:/ Work out degree of sexual tension in initial interaction
3:/ Send initial text after meeting – loads of threads on this, search them out.
4:/ Then throw out the ‘bait’. THIS IS KEY
The bait is intended to get things sexual. Show her that you’re not entirely safe, and get her thinking of you in a sexual way. There is a ladder though, so start off by keeping it subtle. Here is an examples I have used:
(i) “I bet you would look nice with high heels and sexy skirt …and black tights”
WHAT THIS DOES:
Let’s her know you’re thinking about her, that you find her sexy
Establishes a subtle form of dominance / masculine leading – tells her what you would like her to wear
Gets her intrigued, and thinking sexual thoughts about you
WHEN TO SEND IT:
A few hours after initial text, or when you feel like it. BEFORE you try and arrange a meet
5:/ Then arrange logistics of meeting
6:/ Before meeting send texts and subtly and gradually escalate..You have to calibrate it to her. If she is super enthusiastic about your initial text you can push a bit more. Just a little though. In the above example, she replied and said she would wear that, but heels cannot be too high as she would be taller than me (cheeky cow!) . In other words, she took the bait!
Here was my reply:
“Baby that would be sexy…I will think about that. And maybe a few naughty things xx
Now you’re on a sexual plane. Next step is to illustrate you’re thinking about her before meeting. Fantasising. BUT, don’t send too many, don’t bombard the bitch! Maybe 1 per day. Things like this:
“Goddam baby…Now I keep thinking of you in your knickers and bra. Lying on my bed, with your hair fanned out”
Depending on how she responds , you can escalate further and tell her what you will do to her. AVOID CRUDE LANGUAGE AND SWEARWORDS. From experience, never works, turns her off
“I am going to tease you, and kiss you all over. I wish you were in my bed now”
BACK OUT TEXTS
IF she starts to object, call you horny or sleazy (shouldn’t do if you follow the rules), you need to send something like the following:
“No, I’m not rude…Just passionate. I really liked the way you looked. Do you see? But I don’t want you to be offended..I guess it’s difficult to convey over text”
NOTICE YOUR NOT APOLOGISING HERE. THE POSITION IS YOU ARE PASSIONATE AND COULDN’T HELP YOURSELF AS YOU REALLY LIKE HER ETC ETC.
I do this all the time. My Day 2’s are always charged sexually, right from the bat.
NOTE: IF she doesn’t respond by taking the bait at all, you can back off…BUT – in all likelihood, NOTHING will happen. So this process serves as a way of screening, as well.
But that’s why you have the BAIT text, for girls who are a bit more reserved – it’s a way of opening them up, in a safe way, as it’s you who is seducing her….
Clever eh?
This is well written and you definitely understand the female mind and sexting. I agree with everything you said for the most part with the exception of prolonging it over days and days. It is my experience that once you get a woman's mind hot and bothered, it is critical to strike while the iron is hot, women are huge scatter brains and if given enough time will talk themselves out of anything. (especially a sexual encounter with someone they hardly know)
As I am sure you already know, women are emotional beings and react based on their present state of emotion.
I like your style OP it is very similar to mine, just keep in mind it's always best to strike while the iron is hot, keep the target hot and try to set up the meet asap. It makes things so much easier.
P.S. The more you can get into their minds and make them visualize the encounter, the better.
CHAT