I've been working on this idea and I'd like some feedback on it.

Any time guys are in a club, theyre looking for girls. Or at least receptive to the idea of meeting them.

I think that girls will do that, but often times they really have no interest in any guys at all - they're just out to dance and have a good time with their friends. Getting tied up with a guy would be putting a damper on everyone's evening.

Logically you want to get a girl alone to talk to her in that sort of situation. But my sticking point is that too often I feel like they're just not interested in any guys at all. What other ideas can you put in their heads that you should be included in their party?

Most girls just go out to be with thereselves, have an amazing night, get loads of photo's and have a dance.
As you said, some girls dont really want or need the attention of guys when they go out

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Yeah, but you approach them anyways to build up social momentum. Get your minimum rejection quota out of the way early in the night to loosen up and feel free to talk to more people.

Approach them with an assumption they'd prefer to live up to perhaps?
"Hey you guys look like you're friendly people"... Idk. Have yet to open like this.

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If you fly in under the radar with opinion openers and stuff they'll open up to you.

I used these openers last night and they worked great 100% of the time. The only time I C&Bed was when I #closed a hottie and her girlfriend was all like "hey thats my girlfriend and I take offense to that" XD

1. Is it normal for girls to snoop?

The only reason I ask is that because my buddy has been dating this girl for a while and they finally just moved in together. And she went through his stuff and found an old box of letters and pictures of his old girlfriend. He doesn’t even look at it. He just has it. Well she found them and now she wants him to burn them or throw them away. Is this a little over the top? Shouldn’t he be able to keep them?


2. Who lies more men or women?
My buddy and I have a joke bet going. He thinks that guys lie more but girls are better liars. And I think that girls lie more because they’re better liars. Solve it for us, who do you think lies more?


The trick to these openers is you have to ask in a genuinely curious (and somewhat challenging) manner. When I ask the one about the snooping, it's challenging in the sense that it's almost like I accuse them of snooping by how I say it (and my ad libs; adding in things like "you don't snoop, do you?")

Then I learned the best way to keep the conversation going is to show your cocky/funny personality during the dialogue, and then you can DHV simply by giving your own opinion (they'll hint you toward what your opinion should be )

From there just pick up on something she said during her answer and broaden the conversation. Or ask questions about her if all else fails.

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You didn't just say this right?
You really give the answer you think she wants, and not what you think of it yourself?

lot of my homgirl who have bf still go clubbing cause girls love to dance and clubbing is like the mall to girls. so it might not even be u but they might already got bf

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