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PostPosted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 7:07 am 
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I fail a lot at sarging. Online or offline. whatever the case may be I always perceived the outcome as negative.

How can you have fun while messing up?

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 10:04 am 
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It's because you're doing it wrong. You're not out to get better, you're out to get laid. Which is problem. Because in the process of getting laid, rejection is a negative thing, in the process of learning, it's sometimes even better than success.

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This is the NLP forum... Look LONG and HARD for a new direction (nude erection) instead. (Points to penis) You're negativity could be turning your face full of hapPENIS into a life of sadness and flaccidness. Eh... I'm no Ross Jeffries. I don't even know if this NLP is working... is it?

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Shit...so how do you turn that around? Like it's harder to think of it that way...

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Uh... you said "harder" uh huh huh huh (Beavis and Butthead laugh). Maybe the girls you are talking to perceive you as being full of creePENIS (points to penis) and you need to enlighten them with your hapPENIS (points to your penis). By the way, this is the NLP forum...

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Dude... relax. Just have fun. Isn't it fun fooling around with girls? Isn't it fun just talking to them without hitting on them? Isn't it fun to hit on them so hard that you might even get bitchslapped? Just enjoy your time. It's kind of limited so you shouldn't bother to let yourself get down just because some chick you barely even know rejected you. Who cares? It was meant to be. It happened like that for you to learn, not to get upset.

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Oh yeahh! I read about reframing while reading Rules of the Game (Strauss).

He said that if you go out, and your ONLY intention is to get laid while talking to girl and she "rejects your awesome value," you'll perceive that as a failure (within that frame).

Whereas if you go out to see whether an opener or pattern would work or not, you'll succeed no matter what -- That is you got to figure out the validity of a certain phrase or tonality.


Let me know if this helps you, Shadowboxer.

P.S. Ahahaaa! I like you, Chicoman! Your patterns worked well on me.


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You need to study methods and follow them to the tee. Take notes, write things down and keep them on you when sarging so you can use them and see what works and discard what doesn't.

Remember it's a numbers game.

Start by approaching as many girls as possible and don't let yourself get discouraged.

A good way to combat the bad feelings of rejection is to think about what you were doing the day before or the day before that.

Then after you get those bad feelings out, approach another girl. Good luck!

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Alright, I'll go and approach women with an attitude of learning how to do things right. Thank you guys.

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