Just thought I would share this one with you guys. I've had an epiphany lately. Have been out of gaming the last 2 years, and never really got heavy into it as I just needed a few pointers to get back on track after 8 years of relationships.

I guess you could call me a natural, having fucked around 80-90 girls in my 36 years, some of them pure tens. Anyways, that was just to establish some sort of authority on the subject of scoring girls.

Less than four weeks ago I got single, and have been out chasing girls ever since. I've fucked four chicks in that time and for all of them I used one very simple but I've just learned very very important little trick.

We all know how hard it can be to kino escalate. I can't tell you how many sure things I've blown over the years because of going for the kiss without kino escalation. Some of them still hurt badly, because they were fucking insanely hot.

Anyways, over the last month I've gone for 7-8 kiss close. All were a success and all of them followed a very simple recipe. Opening (I just open, don't do canned stuff) - chatting - random in between vibes/getting to know each other/having fun&talk about interesting stuff - holding hands - kissing. The step just before kissing is the interesting one here! Despite having chased girls for twenty years, I am absolutely stunned how big this one is and in disbelief that I never realized it sooner. Beyond anything I've tried ever! As soon as I get a girl weaving fingers, the kiss is only minutes or seconds away - litterally! The thing is, if you are a cool fun guy, girls do want to kiss you. They just don't want you to spoil the moment or feel compliant when doing so. They have to feel it just sort of happens without anybody doing anything specific - like magic. Well there is a hold lot of magic in that little silly finger weaving. Of course you have to wait until it seems right and have her being intereted in you, but it is a much smaller compliance test weave fingers, than going for a kiss - so they very often accept it. And once the fingers weave, you are golden.

I havent written on any of these forums for two years, but this one is so essential that it needs to be shared.

RULE:

Always go for the finger touching/weaving when you feel a kiss is on the cards. It drastically reduces the frequency of that awful feeling of a girl turning her face away when we awquardly just 'go for it'... You will very quickly know if she wants to kiss you.

Sorry for the spelling, I'm not English and quite drunk... (Btw I just kissed the most gorgeous 22 year old chick, all facilitated by the little hand trick)

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Can you explain the finger weaving in more detail I am unfamiliar with it

Thanks

Ha you've accidently discovered the It's on moment - mutual hand caressing. A guy called 60yearsofchallenge came up with this. You could have made some money..

Out of interest what triggers a 'natural' to start reading and finding out about pick-up?

Even a natural has some things that could be improved upon.

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In fact, I'd say naturals almost need it more. Well, at least that's my experience with the things I'm natural at (but they're generally academic)

yeah, I am trying to learn kino really well. I do think that the girls hands are one of the keys that can be used to unlock her. I am starting to see her hands as a second set of lips. If you are good at "kissing" her hands (playing with them, maybe actually kissing) then it seems like a sort of foreplay to lip kissing.

Good post I will try the finger weave.

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When pretending not to care what she thinks becomes really not caring what any of them think...that day I will be a PUA.