This is not mine but Marcus Oakey who has a brilliant free book and newsletter at Yourcharismacoach.com (I've been on his newsletter for six months and haven't had a single item sold to me), you might want to check it out.

"That's What I Like To See,
List two to Three Observations
What more can you ask you for? "

What I've learned about talking to women and people in general is that if you give them Attention, Understanding, Acceptance, and Affection, and a little bit of a good time, make them laugh and smile, then they'll usually open up to you, and if they are attracted to you one bit they'll give you their number.

i dig it

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he