Hello,
I am just leaving an almost 20 years relation with my wife.
I have my heart broken but I want to start a new life.
I'm living in London but this is not my country.
I am in the middle of my 40s and I don't know how to make friends, how to find girls who match with me.
I would like you to help me on my way.
Nice to meet all of you.

Hey,

Just to let you know. I am 52 was married for 23 years.
I was where you are now!

Since then I have turned things around.

I have two regular girls friends, and average 2-3 new girls on the side every month!

Abundance is in your favor!

As a bonus, girls love older Men

Feel free to ask me anything.

If it is of personal nature go ahead and PM me>

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I don't know where to start.
I need confidence. I need to know where to contact girls. I need to be more fit.
I don't know what to do.
What's the starting point.
Thanks a lot for your help.

What do you recommend to me as starting point?
Is confidence first thing to work?
My problem is I am new in the city I live (London) and it's really difficult for me to find people to go out.
Where do you contact girls?
What kind of girls?
Is easy for you to have sex with them?

Step #1 Set goals; write them down. Make them attainable!
Example: "I will interact with 4 new people today!"
Step #2 HIT THE GYM! you will look better, feel better, and meet a whole new world of people!
Step #3 Join a class, volunteer at something you have background or knowledge.
Step #4 Research. Check out free dating sites. Get an Idea of what you are looking for.

Nothing will change, if you don't do SOMETHING!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I started to go to the gym 3 weeks ago and before that, I was loosing 15kg of weight, but I need to work my muscles. I'll need some months or maybe 1 year.
I have been trying online dating sites, but is really difficult to find girls. The don't want to contact cause my age. And ladies who want don't like me.
I am in a new city and I have to develop all.
Ill try to start today to interact with 4 new girls today.
Anything else?
Thanks a lot for your help.

I started to go to the gym 3 weeks ago and before that, I was loosing 15kg of weight, but I need to work my muscles. I'll need some months or maybe 1 year.
I have been trying online dating sites, but is really difficult to find girls. The don't want to contact cause my age. And ladies who want don't like me.
I am in a new city and I have to develop all.
Ill try to start today to interact with 4 new girls today.
Anything else?
Thanks a lot for your help.

Nice! see good start already!

Now that your in a new city, it is the perfect chance to build the cocky/funny fearless outgoing new you!

You have the upper hand! They don't know you! You are free to speak your mind and say or do whatever you want!
I call bullshit! Wrong attitude Bro! From now on it's whether or not YOU want THEM!

Link your profile to this site and ask for a "review"!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

This is my profile:

About me:
Well here goes, I like art (and visit exhibitions), go out, travel, chat, socialize.
Im interested in lots of things art, film especially foreign and art house. I love music and still go to festivals and to see bands. You will find me most weekends milling around London. vintage clothing shops, knowing the city.
My ideal evening with one of you girls on first meet would be in a cool bar somewhere for a few beers.
As i say im interested in lots of things far too many to list....so happy hunting

What I am looking for:
I am looking for a genuine, caring, honest, romantic and above all trustworthy woman.
I am looking for friendship first.
But if I find Mrs Right, then let thing to happen.

Could you review my profile or there is another section for this?

I did, it doesn't look to bad.
Have you tried to open any girls yet?

But you should post in the "online" section and ask for a review also

You will get a broader spectrum of opinion

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

For the moment, I didn't get any success.
Something is wrong.

Give me an example of how you tried to open?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

maybe inject a little humour in your profile? and try to go for wide rapport more so than deep rapport. eg. i think you mentioned liking art 3 times.

I just contact potential women matching me. And I send a redefined message saying that we have common interests.
It doesn't work.
But anyway, I want to meet younger girls (30-35), but the most of them want to meet men under 40.
I don't know what to do.