the thing that mostly scares me about this whole story is how a girl can be sending all the "right" vibes and still be cheating or planning to cheat (or at the very least be utterly dishonest)... other than the Facebook thing (which I myself had dismissed as non-conclusive and of little value), this girl seemed to be crazily enamored.. scary!

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

She thought he'd always come back to her no matter what she did

now she deleted all the pics of her ex from facebook (except for maybe 2, honest mistake i think... out of about 600 of her total pics, 60 ablums total). she did a good job.

i read through the rest of the messages in her account, hell lot of them. it looks like she most probably did not cheat, but 1. i can never be sure, 2. who cares?

and then she set an animal as a cover photo (what is one of my nicknames she gave me). but later she changed that to a flower what she always wanted me to get her and we were joking about it for weeks... i always told her that she really has to prove herself cause i never give flowers to girls, only if they really really deserve it.

this girl has gone crazy.

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"You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take."
Wayne Gretzky

Mate, i really feel for you and the psychotic loser mentality your ex has had.

I've also been in a very similar situation where she came back to me a cried and I folded with my emotion and went back to her. Then drama unfolded again and I broke it off and she came to my house and decided to camp outside in her car....

This time I stuck with my head and did a freeze out / broke the relationship.

You really need to stick with your head this time around if you want to get over this. You may feel emotionally involved with her and see her as the best one ever, but in reality, if she is willing to act in a way that affects your happiness in the relationship that cannot be resolved calmly and collectively... you then really need to move on.

Well spoken for a first post. When she does not make you happy its time to move on and leave her behind as hard as this may be.

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

"Do you guys think I can still save this? How do I get her back? "

hahahahaha ^^^

Ok dude, just be alpha, text her saying "Next." and never talk to her again.
She's a proven liar, she did sleep with him, she tries rationalising what she did as being "ok", when it's not. You don't need her, she may be hot but there are hotter girls out there who don't lie.

NEXT NEXT NEXT

DONT EVER FUCKING TALK TO HER AGAIN!!! DONT HUG HER, DONT SEE HER, DONT MEET HER, DONT DO ANYTHING, JUST GO FUCK OTHER GIRLS SHES HISTORY

FUCKING HISTORY!!! NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT FUCKING NEXT!!!!!!!!

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Law of Attraction