Thanks for the backhanded insults and shaming language, but that's to be expected from the PUA community, which gets its jollies by ganging up on men like me.

I resent, and find it deeply offensive that you think that's it's all my fault that I find myself challenged by dating, when you have never met me, know what I look like, and or know me personally. For your information up until the last few years I did lead an active social life where I did attempt to meet women, but was met with a barrage of instant rejection, so please don't accuse me of having a bad or dysfunctional personality because how is a woman supposed to know the real me, when she doesn't even give me a chance? Also, I took all the cliched advice dispensed by society, relatives, women, and regrettably some of it from the PUA industry, none of which worked, so you can't accuse me of not trying different methods. I am not making excuses, I am being honest, and knowing my limitations as a man, and the worse thing a man can do, is to lie to himself, and pretend to be something or someone he is not.

And what also makes me angry is when the PUAs and other people blame me for my cursed luck with women, is that I am "damned if I do", and "damned if I don't", which means if I try to meet women and get rejected, you call me a loser, chode, AFC etc, but if I give up, you still call me a loser. When will you PUAs realise that when a woman saids no, she actually means no, what part of the no word don't you understand?, the n or the o?

You PUAs also have to understand that as man I have no control on how a woman reacts to me, or whether she is atttracted to me, at the end of the day, it's her choice, as women are the choosers and they are the sole gatekeepers of relationships and sex. Of course there things as a man you do have control over, eg. your hygiene, your dress sense, your physique and fitness and of obviously your own behaviour.

If the PUA was actually serious about helping dating challenged men, instead of insiulting them and making false assumptions (like you have about me), offer these men constructive and supportive advice, instead of making empty promises and ganging up on them.

Most guys with money dont have to try to impress women with their money.

The women are already impressed.

The real moral of the story is that there are many reasons women might find you attractive. If not for looks for your personality. if not for either of those for you kindness or sweetness.

If not for that for your brains,,,,yes some women are attracted to smart guys.

If not for that for your beliefs.

If not for that for you smile or your hair or your bald hair.

or your career or you money.

More often than not it's a combination of all those things.

And most women know they wont end up with a rich guy anyway, there arent as many as there are struggling guys lol.

The message, maximize what you can offer a woman.

Let me ask you serious question???? How does a women when i go clubbing gaming them, know if i have money or not???? And how do they know how much money i have in my bk account?????

Well she doesnt know for sure, but she can have hunches. Clothes you wear, shoes you wear, car you may have driven in, how much cash you had on you when you bought a drink, watches and jewlery.

and mostly from talking. "what do you do for a living" little questions that suggest if you have money.

You may have business cards or be able to talk about your business without lying, im sure guys try to lie too.

But guys who flaunt it, deserve what they get.

Again, it's just another part of the attraction puzzle.

How does a girl know if you are good in bed? or have a small schlong, or are bisexual, or a murderer. She doesnt know alot of things, but alot of things are suggestive.