So, guys...
First of all, I'm usually VERY open and extremely funny, cute and all that stuff, BUT only around people I've seen for ages, I feel like I should "act normal" or "act like they want me to" around people I don't know and I have no idea how to fix this.
I already know about hypnosis and changing my beliefs, but I'm afraid I could mess this one up.
Any tips?

I can't think of what to ask about in a conversation. How do you guys come up with your questions so the conversation is light and easy?

Also, is it bad if I ALWAYS keep smiling, I smile like stupid all the time around people I barely know.

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you have a supplicating attitude which is unattractive, you seem aware of this
wrong idea, you are still in a supplicating mindframe. Think of what you will talk about to be attractive, not on how to keep them talking and keep them confortable, that's a fail strategy.

There are a couple threads on smiling, I wont iterate them here, but ya a supplicating AFC perma-smile isn't a good idea.

Think of yourself as high status and that people should live up to your standards, instead of thinking you have to impress or get along with others. You have to belive this or your game is never going to be very good.

Thanks detox, you REALLY helped me there. Especially with the high status thing, I almost had it cought but I just couldn't grasp it anymore. Thanks again. :]

And I think I already fixed the smiling issue, I think I'll just keep cool and then smile ONLY if something really starts interesting me. (Because of the high status thing.)

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cool, im glad it made sense to you. So again remember that you want to appear as an interesting, exciting, adventurous, successful, high value person. When you think of this it has nothing to do with soliciting answers to silly questions and trying to directly entertain your targets with banal prattle and mundane jocularity's. At the end of the day, the trick to attraction is to get the girl to chase you. So you will still have to approach, captivate, and attract but do that with your high social value, not by SPAM affection, status, or approval in a fruitless effort to gain attraction - that wont work.

Then when their eyes light up when they realize you are the prize you close them.

Fluffs,

It would seem like behind your performing for people is fear or shame of some kind. My first tip would be to try to pinpoint as exactly as you can what your fear is. What if you didn't "act normal" or "like they want you to". What might happen? And then what might happen if that happened? And so on?

Once you've identified the fear driving this, then two more questions:

-Where did this fear come from in your past?
-What part of you still holds this fear?

Then you can do some self-talk to that part of you and let it know if its fear is no longer sensible and that you want to work to change it.

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Thanks Clearspeak,

Detox kinda fixed that already with the high value strategy, but I suppose a deeper fix is still a good idea, I'mma try that out later.
I could actually do a little belief changing hypno later.

Right now I'm doing a few things that would increase my self-esteem around people aswell (improving my looks and posture).

Really, thanks alot guys. It's amazing how easily I moved on with your help.

Oh, yh, is it ok if I appear a little arrogant in front of people?

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