I have no problem entering the set delivering the opener, but after I do I freeze up and can't transition into the next phase of the game..Any suggestions ?

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koz

until u get some good multi thread action u should take a step away and then turn back and ask over the shoulder - "so how do u all know each other?" - easy

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Everyone is different. How do you make a new friend? Not through an opener but through relating. That is why it is called a relationship.

There is no problem being nervous but I typically find I'm nervous when there is nothing I know of I can relate with for the other person. She may be pretty but not for you. There is tons of time to make friend of both men and women and they can suggest a good match.

All these canned openers are just pick up lines; at this point every woman on the planet has heard them all at least once.

So try being genuine.

Remember: Nice guys finish last because bad guys burn out first. The woman who is right for you is worth waiting for. So, take it easy.

I made 5 approaches. The first one I got blew off but it didn't matter she was ugly and I just wanted the warm-up. The second one I actually did my opener( Hey I saw you and thought you were cute so I had to come say hi ) got passed the opener but the conversation was shakey(nerves) ask for the number, but I got the (I have a boyfriend lie) she was bullshitting. My third approach went great Hb7.5 did the same opener( btw they all loved it, got smiles from ear to ear) Conversation:
Me : Hey I saw you and thought you were cute so i had to come say hi
Her: Aww thank you.
Me: Whats your name ?
Her: blah bblah
Me: (while shaking her hand) actually im a hugger.
Her: (surprised expression) oh ok
Me : Yeah I never shake girls hands it feels weird to me
Her: (laughing)
Me: Hey your nose wiggles when you laugh, its cute.
Her: (now smiling with a little shyness)
Me : (Me doing the C shape vs U shape smiles) * I change this routine a little*
I usually say, hey you have a C shape smile, like britney spears. Do you know the difference between C shape smiles and U shaped ones ? I heard people with C shaped smiles are more friendly,nice, opened people, but on the inside they also have bad girl tendencies, and people with U shaped smiles, are more closed off, appear very sexual but on the inside they are good girls on the inside....I told her this and she agreed she was a C shape with bad girl tendencies
Conversation went into what she is going to school for and blah blah( collecting rapport)
Then I did the esp test. she chose a different number, but I just said oh I guess it doesn't work(sad face) she started laughing, so i turned around and said lets try again and from this time pick from 1-4 it worked this time and she said it was 3.
Her friend had entered the set and I immediately complimented her friend on something she was wearing, then she complimented me on my shirt, we had a small conversation, and she left the set, so i continued talking to the target, after she said she had to go with her friends, so I said she should give me her number, then she said she had a boyfriend my reply" oh ok, he could make us breakfast in the morning) she started laughing, and told me to add her on facebook.

The last approach she was in a rush I did the same opener but she had somewhere to go so in a hast, I just told her to give me her number and we will get to know each other later * positioning my body in a I dont care poster, and pretending like i'm txting, she looked and said ok, and she gaved me her number.

Overall I could do better, but can't wait to make more approaches.

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