Is knowing you have/had something and then losing it.

This happens to me so often, I have a girl who likes me, but then i act too AFC and it starts dying down... more and more.

Im in the middle of it right now with one girl.

I'm going nowhere fast, i don't have many chances left.

I just can't open up to her and be myself, its not even me being nervous its like i just act super lame sometimes when im around her.

im gonna lose her if i dont "make a move" or something, but i feel like making a move that seems forced and out of place will never work anyway. it has to be natural. i need to make everything seem more natural and smooth.

honestly no one in my life believe in me, but myself. but i need to do this and stop this endless pattern of failing and not even trying.

it just sucks, losing something you could have had.

its not like weightlifting i can't just lift more weight and get results, i cant just try harder, i have to BE better.

i just need more confidence, i assume.

i know it's within me somewhere, it sometimes comes out, how can i get it to always come out?

thanks for reading this lame ass post.

Have you k-closed or f-closed this girl your stuck on?

In the meantime read this:

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neither, i have gone on two dates with her though and could have k-closed her obviously.

she is also more reserved than most girls, there is no way i could f-close her without dating her. Or doing so would not be worth the effort at least.

this isn't so much one-itis as it is me getting fed up with this happening over and over and i DONT want it to happen again..

So I take it you don't agree that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?

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