Facebook is the little bitch to everyone's relationship!

So my girlfriend, whilst messing about with her girl friends at a BBQ, took a picture of herself eating a sausage. (I think you can see where this is going )
It was sexual in a very jokey way, but it's not that impressive.

Until...
Some kid she knows comments 'I wish that was my sausage! :L'

The fuck?

What's my response? Pleaaaase let me know.
I don't want to make a beta out of myself.

Thanks guys.

if you have a hot GF you ll always have to deal with things like this.

just ignore it.

your GF will do the same.

don't act insecure or anything, just honetly ignore it, never even mention. if she brings it up, you can tell her some funny witty comment.

I know what you mean and this is why i am thinking when i am in a relationship its best not to have your girlfriend as a friend, will cause drama and jealousy and you always see something you don't like. What doesn't know doesn't hurt.

Now i still have no clue to explain this to my future girlfriends cause 99% of them want to have that damn relationship status on there so you must be friends. Maybe there is an option to stop seeing posts from certain people?

For your situation... do not call her out on it, she did nothing wrong, you will always have kids like that, hell my ex had 50 guys posting on her hot pictures and she always replied to them in a flirty way and even liked some comments they made so this is nothing.

Just let it go bro, if she ever crosses the line with you, i hope your willing to dump her.

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Hell yes am I willing to dump her.

Okay thanks guys.

I originally commented 'Who the fuck does this kid think he is?'

But I deleted it because it seems like an over-reaction.
(She didn't see it, it was only up for a minute or so).

Thanks for your amazing help, yet again guys.

Dan.

The only thing is, I want to call the kid out.

He's an AFC twat. He's not good looking. I want to make him look the idiot.

Because actually, I find it disresepctful to me as her boyfriend.

I don't think I can call the kid out without looking like a massive control freak.

It is super disrespectful! But faggots like that will always be there.

My ex had a picture up looking sexy and some twat commented: "And that's where i belong next to Xx Love you "

This kid was someone she knew in real life and had been hanging out with so it bothered me a lot but really all it is is Facebook, he isn't fucking her doggy-style so in a way be proud of having a girlfriend who is wanted by other dudes.

At the other hand i do know what you mean by making him look like an idiot and disrespecting you like that, my approach would be in your situation something funny but serious enough to let him know to not fuck with you.

"You wish it, i got it " something along those lines. Your girl cant say your taking the dude serious and he knows whos boss.

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I think that sounds way too friendly.. like it's egging him on.

I'm just going to leave it. But it really, really pisses me off.

She's ignored it though.

I want to nut this kid. :L

Listen to ibhaZaa. You should ignore stupid crap like this. By acknowledging stupid comments by AFC's, you just display your own insecurity. By making this an issue, you are just decreasing your own value. Stuff like this should be entirely beneath your notice. Who gives a crap what some lame AFC says on the internet?

Cute girls get hit on all the time, especially online. Your girlfriend wont even think twice about this. You shouldn't either. It was a good call to delete that comment.

-Wolf

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Let me give you the secret to having a hot girlfriend man, its call the "I don't give s shit" method lol basically its were you literally dont give a shit! what guys say to your gf unless its something offensive.

My gf gets hit on regularly! the best is when she she talks to a guy at a party or at school, he adds her on facebook and wrights a comment like "Hey looking good!" or posts on her wall "great seeing your last night! we should get together some time"....most guys would get super jealous but I take it as a complement and its rather pathetic to be honest! to a girl that looks super "beta" and weak!

Secondly if your gf's facebook says "in a relationship" the guy is prob a douche any way who clearly is not smart enough to send her a privet msg.

Another thing you have to realize is that women can be friends with a guy and think nothing of it! but men are not wired that way, your gf prob just thinks he is joking but he is half serious im sure! so dont get to offended over the whole thing because I highly dout your gf is going to cheat on you with a douche who says things like "I wish my sausage was in your mouth" haha

From the sound of things you have no reason to be jealous and if I were you I would play it off like a joke, yeah it sucks sometimes when guys say stuff to your gf but the bottom line is she with you not him.

Try this, under his post you should post something like, "yeah I dont blame you it is pretty amazing! (:"

I wouldn't write that. It's disrespectful to his girlfriend. He would basically announce hey everybody I put my dick in my girlfriend's mouth unlike this wannabe who wants to do that. It shows lack of social intuition and it's pretty inappropriate.

The OP is probably not jealous at all, however he is pissed because this clown disrespected both her and him in a jokingly way. I would be pissed if my girl was associated with a low life like that and would let others disrespect her in public.

i wouldn't react at all, infact i'd probably laugh, knowing thats the closest an AFC like him will ever get

Common man the girl put a pick of herself on facebook directed towards giving blow jobs....I dont think its any more disrespectful then a guy saying he wishes it was his. I guess it also depends on the dynamic of the relationship, and in some cases it could be taking it one step to far, but in my eyes if you put your self out on public display acting out you should expect comments like that. That why I dont personally put pics of my self doing dumb things on facebook because everyone see's everything these days!

I think like most guy here said its best to just not react and understand that some guys will be idots but all that matters is your her man not those other guys.

It depends on the context really. Maybe doing that silly pick is as far as she goes and anything more is crossing the line. Maybe she has a lot of sluty pics trying to get attention and people are used to making sexual remarks on her expense.

My post was referring to more the type of girl I would be with. One who respects herself, doesnt let people disrespect her and is not friends with such pathetic low lives who would write that on her wall. Thats just me and my standards. Who knows what kind of relationship OP is in and how he views everything.