Yeah dude i agree. I was currently in the same situation except my chick lost her job and got evicted, also eventually had to move back to her parents in nearly 1 month time. I'm in a family business, so I was left unable to help. Family doesn't like it when you pay your girls rent. She left. I talked it over with my bro and he gave me sound advice I'll give to you

Ask yourself:

-is she worth it?

-has she lied before?

-is she lying now?

-if she liked you why didn't she work harder to stay with you?
(you can be biased on this one)

-are you being a pussy?

Ask yourself that and see what you come up with. I would be interested in hearing.
I'll let you know what my answer was, and it wasn't the top four questions..


Edit: also as you have said she is beginning to give you a lack of communication, it means someone, or something else has her attention. If this is the case, best move on. Communication is the key factor in keeping a long distance relationship.

-is she worth it? yea

-has she lied before? yea

-is she lying now? I can't really tell, I don't believe her a lot.

-if she liked you why didn't she work harder to stay with you?
(you can be biased on this one) well we loved each other for some time but she rejected me, then after a freeze she called and so on. she called me out..

-are you being a pussy? no way..

okay. I am a pussy sometimes, expecially now when she does this to me

And your girl will be able to see this and will treat you accordingly

we are talking over facebook, we haven't had a good conversation till now, she just doesn't respond very good, should i freeze? I will see her in 3-4 days

Without sounding rude or anything, in my own personal experience LDR rarely if ever work, especially with young adults. Theres just way too much temptation out there, and young people like to "live there lives" which can lead to many problems down the line.

Well, I think you should contact her..If she has feelings to you then I am sure she will meet you soon....

Iv had heaps of LDRs and you gotta be both committed dude
its an art form that Ill only reserve for the best girls that I trust.
Oh yea and a girl I had been dating for 7 years had someone on the side that I found out about at the start of this year. Made me sick took me along time to get over it.
Girls lie.
Girls cheat.
some are better than others but dont kid yourself, look at her history, look at how important you are to her.

if she is worth it do it.
if not explain your suituation to her if you think it wont work and frame it like you want to be an additon to her life not a restriction ect.

So i wrote something on facebook and she replied, wrote again and she didn't and since then she hasn't even opened my window(since when someone sees your message it shows). What should i do? say something or just leave it? It's been 4 days and her phone is broken

You're being too needy and you need to man up.

Imo, you have got to start gaming other women and living your life and stop sweating shit like this. It's a bit pathetic really.

If you keep acting in a needy way things will turn sour, fast. I was acting a little needy with my girl when she first went away, but I cut it out before it could destroy things and got on with my life and it fixed things.

Okay so some time passed. I had stopped talking to her since June(i don't remember the date). I went to discos and stuff and kissed 12 girls till now but no lays. But i still got feelings for her Yesterday was her Name-day(if this is the right word) So i sent her a text around 9:30 and she called me asking who i was, when I said it's me she got shocked and had a little stroke and said "omg, I'm sorry I had lost my phone and i have no numbers here(100% lie.)"and asked me how I was and stuff and said thanks for the wish and i said that i had to go and ended the call. I'm gonna see her on 1st of September, how should i react? I know I should be spontaneous but, should it be just like nothing happened or?

And I'm gonna say it again, she said that she loved me first and continued saying that till the day we stopped talking for no reason.

I've been in LDR's before. One very recently bottomed out. I'll tell you this much: they are twice the effort and half the fun of a real relationship.

Stop talking to her. Stop until she puts forth the effort to lock down the real prize: you.

If she wants to make it work, she will try harder. After all, she moved away. Not you. Why should you make it right?

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

I'm in one right now and you couldnt be more right

Sigh...

Distance is being a thorn to my side :/

Okay so school year starts. And I saw her from a distance but turned my head cuz i was ignoring her. When I arrived home i got a text message "Hi.My name is (her name). Nice to meet you" I replied the same just with a little change. The next three-four days I was doing some push pull and showed her that I'm not something she can have only when she wants to. She was texting and calling me like crazy. I didn't always reply and answer the phone of course:)

Then one night around 22:00 she called me and told me that she's in town and wants to see me(but only for a walk cuz her dad was waiting) So we walk and talk and we interlocked fingers. When she had to go I hugged her and tried to kiss her but she refused.

Today I saw her at school and she was walking around with a friend of mine on every break. She didn't even see me.

I guess I shouldn't give a fuck about her anymore and move on. Any better ideas?