Hey all,

I'm new here so I'll introduce myself first and then I'll share my first experience playing the game.

I'm a 19-year-old guy from the netherlands currently studying business stuff at the university. I love to have fun and drink beer with my friends, but I think my true passion lies with entrepreneurship.
I got into the game a week ago by reading the book that got recommended by allot of my friends 'the game' by Neil strauss (like so many others I suppose :p ). And yesterday I got my first experience at the game..

It started with a dinner with my friend group with another girl friend group, I was really comfortable with them and confident to try out some of the stuff I read on these forums and in the book.
So I was talking a bit with this girl next to my target HB 7.5 negging and ignoring her a bit and my heart started beating faster as I immediately noticed the effect.. She was just fighting for attention it was really great and I decided to try more of the things I read. I tried to pushing her away and then pulling her back repeatedly, it all seemed to work out great.

So later that night I started talking to her and she brought up her boyfriend, so I tried the strawman technique that I read about, I said how great her boyfriend must be and how he must be so good for her bla bla bla, I didn't handle it perfect yet, my voice sounded a bit to sarcastic at times, but amazingly it still seemed to work.

So I started to try some other routine I read about: 'the cube'. I had only read this quickly, so I didn't do this very good I forgot about the flowers and my interpretation was a real mess, but it didn't matter it still worked.

She was getting closer to me, then later on the night we all went to some other bar, we danced closely there and was really great, but when she tried to kiss me I resisted because she was really drunk and it felt wrong to kiss her after she just told me how she was in a relationship with her boyfriend for 6 months. So I kissed her goodbye on the cheek and went home.

But that didn't matter it was a great night, I'm so amazed how good all this stuff works. I feel really great and more confident now and I'll definetly practice more and get better at this.

I'm setting myself the goal to be able to hook up with any girl I meet, within 6 months.

I apologize for wrong usage of abbrevations and terminology and also for my not so fluent english.

I hope to be part of this community and I would love to hear any tips you would be able to give me.

sounds like you're doing well!

only tip i give you is reconsidering the "feelings" of her poor bf! dude, this is your call of course, is he your bro or something?

women are "unloyal" by definition. he is "unloyal" by definition. if she wants to kiss you, kiss her. if she wants to fuck you, fuck her. because get this, if it's not you, it will definitely be someone else.

Haha no he is not my bro and I should probably explain it a bit differently. it's more that I earned her trust and didn't want to lose it by kissing her when she is really drunk, because I think that will ruin any possible future relationship. Instead I got her desire now and hope the strawman technique will work out

update: sort of invited her to a party today, maybe a bit to directly and got no response yet. any tips what do?

Welcome!

Studying business as well, and being a business owner, I am a big fan of you setting a time table for what you want to accomplish. Most people forget to do this, and it's one of the most vital components of accomplishing something. Respect to you on that.

I would suggest to see what she says. I would have waited and not texted her the next day to let her think what a great time she had and what a great guy you are. It would have also allowed you to DHV. However, there is nothing wrong with you texting her today. Just see what she says and go from there. You can update the forum with her response and look for suggestions. There is also a thread in General Questions by EddieFews where you can ask him what to text back.

Hope you reach your goals. Enjoy!

thanks for the response!

I told her that we were going to some poolparty and asked if she had anything exciting planned that night and she responded "I'm chilling with my boyfriend wich is always exciting" or something like that, so that didn't work out so well. I responded that it surely sounded excitimg. I guess I should atleast wait a week now before messaging her. Anyone got suggestions?

update: sort of invited her to a party today, maybe a bit to directly and got no response yet. any tips what do?

I think you shouldn't have answered the obvious text about her boyfriend, I would have just ignored it. In which city are you studying by the way?