I'v heard of it, said 2 myself:" Ye, thats when your cool with som1" and just passed it on, but know when I think about it, it doesnt rly add up =/ som1 plz give a full or semi-full explenation?

I'm pretty sure rapport is the feeling of being able to talk about anything and everything with someone, because you're totally comfortable with it.

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http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/rapport

Basically just a matter of whether you have a connection with somone or not. It's not a complex concept, so don't go thinking that it is one, but that doesn't mean that it isn't a powerful one. 1+1=2 is a simple concept, but it is also the first thing someone learns before being able to do math, so is rapport essential for being able to be a pickup artist.

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Cool, thx guys

Rapport is anything but a simple concept. It's surface simple, but there is a lot that goes into building rapport, and it is of incredible importance to ever single interaction you will ever have for the rest of your life.

The good news is, you already know how to have a conversation with rapport established. The difficulty comes from establishing it in the first place. Then more difficulty comes when you try and utilize rapport to turn a conversation to your own ends. ^_^

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This is basically the process in which people sell themselves to one another via stories and chit chat. How to sale yourself properly to women so they want to continue being around you is what you learn in this forum. So if you have any additional questions feel free to ask.

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Ok, Wild I'l take u up on your invatation, and ask ;p

whats the way u get the fastest rapport, besides body mirroring? Do u have a routine 4 it, or a line, or u just go with the flow and fluff talk?

Maybe you don't know what it is because you are saying it wrong. It's pronounced REPAWR.

Building a rapport with somone is increasing trust and understanding between eachother.

Oh yes, the issue of my grammer is a huge one, but thats beside the point ;p caveman, what do u do 2 make the rapport happen faster then it normaly should, I meen, do u have a tactic, or is it fluff talk till u drop ^^

There are many interesting things that happen during RAPPORT. Think of it this way, when ever you establish rapport you have made a connection with the individual you are interacting with at a subconcious level. What you're basically making the person feel is that you are THE SAME as them. Attempt to match body lenguage, breathing, tone of voice and you will see that the individual will start to feel more comfortable as they are speaking to you. Think of this as if you're in front of a mirror when speaking to them, make them see themselves in you. This will mean a lot when talking to any set. Make sure to make your TARGET feel at EASE by establishing rapport. PRACTICE makes perfect. Try ith with anybody!