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| itzfrankie51 | PostPosted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 11:43 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Apr 23, 2012 1:06 pm Posts: 78 Yahoo Messenger: itzfrankie51@yahoo.com AOL: na Location: westtown ny 10998 | | i dont really get it, how it works , how to do it so scenarios would be helpful and if anyone has good examples that would be great to _________________ dont chase, replace
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| astartes2 | PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 11:43 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Jul 20, 2011 3:03 pm Posts: 55 | | Did you read the myster method?
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| sika | PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 12:04 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Mar 15, 2012 9:04 pm Posts: 53 | | I have and dont really get it either to be honest. is it the same as the bait pull and release?
might be time for a re-read
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| clearspeak | PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 12:08 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Thu Jun 07, 2012 1:47 am Posts: 235 Website: http://www.communicationskillsactivities.net | | It's really something that can apply in general with communication with people. People usually want to be close, but also get scared if things get too close too fast. So you want to draw them in a bit, but before any fears come up you want to show them you are ok with space too and push away just a bit. You are basically showing with your actions that you are a person who can handle a healthy balance of closeness and space.
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| sika | PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 12:24 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Mar 15, 2012 9:04 pm Posts: 53 | | anyone got a link to a decent article explaining the process? Ill hit google
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| "The Gift" | PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 4:38 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Sun Nov 13, 2011 11:54 am Posts: 437 | | I think 'Cat string theory' demonstrates it best...
Dangle a string just out of reach of a cats paws and that cat will give chase doing everything in its power to get that string. Then, when the prize has been won and the cat has the string in its grasp, it will quickly lose interest.
So what you do, is keep that string just in reach, the cat is excited...and just when the cat thinks it has got it, move it further away. _________________ Leeds Pick up Lair. PM for info.
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