This is not necessarily just for short guys like me (I'm 5'6"). I know I'm short so I usually go for girls who are below 5'3" at least , but because I'm so painfully short, a lot of girls I find attractive are about my height or taller. I feel like I'm almost disqualified before I say a word with these girls and have had very little success with them. I'm really not a bad looking guy, I'd call myself at least average looking. I'm not fat and not too skinny so what gives? Do you guys use a different approach with girls who are your height or taller?

I am not much taller at 5'7" and I face this issue as well. What I would say is that you can certainly find shorter girls but don't feel the need to impose a "max height." If you don't think that you'll be able to get with her, you won't. At my university, I know of a couple where the girl is about 2-3 inches taller than her boyfriend and she's a HB9. Just goes to show that it can be done.

what do you mean what gives?

you said it yourself, you feel dis-qualified before you even begin

^ being confident that you will be dis-qualified is a great way to actually get dis-qualified

all in your head, sure some girls won't be up for it, but just because some girls have an issue with height, does not mean that applies to all girls

just get over rejection and start going for it reguardless of what you think that the girl thinks, stop worrying about getting approval, start worrying about what you want in life, and go after it

Just ignore the height issue and it dissolves

I'm pretty short myself, but I had tall girlfriends.

Even if a girl has already decided that she doesn't like short guys, then they still will feel attraction the normal way.
After sex: "Wow, I usually don't sleep with short guys."

Same goes for girls that 'usually' aren't attracted to black guys, blonde guys, bearded guys, etc.

So, once again, it boils down to confidence. If you feel insecure, practice on tall girls that are a lot younger. They will make you feel taller
And have some witty responses prepared to jokes or comments about your length. One I use is "It's not about the length, it's about the technique "

Just joke around it. On holiday I ended up fucking a 6 foot 'model' (I'm 5 foot 8inches) and I pretty much instantly joked about her height when I met her, then just took her to a bar where I made sure she was sitting down and our eyes were at the same level. Most tall girls wish they were shorter and it's definitely something to play on.

Thanks for the help guys. I actually number closed a girl who has a good 3, 4 inches on me today lol. I guess height really doesn't matter if you don't make it matter.

I'm short but that doesn't stop me. Sure it may be a hinderance, but you gotta push past that and show confidence and go for it.
Ha, didn't read this post originally. Good job, and good luck with her.

Good job dude. Way to blast through your self doubt. If you're thinking that the height thing is on her mind throw in a couple extra negs for good measure. If she mentions the height difference remember to have a couple custom negs just for that.

I'm 5' 10" and like the taller girls so I know how it can occasionally come into play. My very favorites are the taller ballet dancers... I like how they line up later... anyhow...

In my opinion I wouldn't mention it in set even jokingly especially considering how you're self conscious about it. Only address it if it comes up. Otherwise assume its on!

Its always good to know what your own hot buttons are.

Again great job on the number close We're rooting for you.

if my memory is correct, niel strauss (style) is 5'6". And I certainly don't think he excluded tall girls from his taste. This alone is all the confidence I need to approach girls who are taller than me.
By the way, 5'6" isn't that short imo. 5'6" is more like a "he's kinda short, but it's not too bad".
I"m 5'8" and most of the girls I'm attracted to are my height at the most. Most girls who are taller than me (at least the ones I see on a daily basis) are either too skinny with no assets, or they are too fat. In other words, they usually don't have a nice proportionate physique imo.

My good friend from France gave me killing answer when i was teasing him about his shortness and how he picks up tall girls at all?
His answer for my joke was: Listen, when we lay down we are all the same size!
So maybe if some girl makes a joke about your height return something like this in a playfull way.

very interesting...

dude i am 5'3 and gaming as well. I like gaming girls who are my height and a little taller up to 5'6. you actually have a better advantage than i do.

5'9" here which actually is pretty short where I'm from. (Most guys around are at least 6'2"..)

My problem is the other way around.. I discard girls on their length. When they're taller than me I just lose interest. I also love high heels. F*** me, right?

Found a great one that's still shorter than me in 4 inch heels though. Think I might keep her.

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5"4" and had a few 6'+ girls in my past. but for the most part I don't even factor in my height. I like short girls but that's just my preference. If one doesn't get bold to mention how i'm short I just let them know that laying down I'm about 8" taller then them. That might be a little exaggeration but if they get to that point to find out you usually got them on their back. Stand up tall and just be confident. Your biggest physical faults an features fade over time. Its the how you make them feel and your attitude that people rate you on.

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