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PostPosted: Mon May 28, 2012 4:38 pm 
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I learned about Pick-Up when I was only 16 years old, and I was siked about it! It was like I was holding the most treasured secret in the world and I knew that only a few months of practice will get me to where I want to be. I started going out as much as I could, and whenever I did, and no matter how motivated I was a second before, I just couldn't open my mouth and speak to a random girl. This fear was bigger than me, no way bigger. I'm now 19 years old and the only thing that has changed is that I have a better mindset. I knew in my head that I would be pro at getting girls or at least developed enough confidence to not give a f*** about what others think of me. That hasn't happened, and I'm willing to try one last time, but where do I start? and is it possible for me to achieve this goal by only day game?(Clubs and night game isn't an option, I'd explain but to long) Thanks in advance.


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PostPosted: Mon May 28, 2012 11:24 pm 
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Hey

I would start by going though some of david deangelos material since he has really good inner game stuff. If what you fear is opening sets i would recommend start talking to every stranger you can for a little longer. F.eks. at seven eleven. You could also do as i am doing now - aproch 20 girls in one day. These girls has to be the type you desire. Just have a general opinion opener like "where is a good place to shop?" You should also learn how to read handwriting, just search on the web cus when doing day game it could be a sticky point getting the number. What you do is open, talk some and then say you just started learning handwriting analyses and ask if you can do it. Then get her to write her name and talk some about her handwriting. After that you say you need some numbers, then ask her to write her number.

The challenge is hard as FCK. It is easy to tell yourself it is no problem while sitting by the computer, but a whole other thing to do it in real life. i would also started doing a lot of inner game exercises, that has helped me a lot. Then just do it. Pm me if you need anny help with anything.

hope it helps.


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PostPosted: Wed May 30, 2012 5:48 am 
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Great advice given above. It all begins with your inner game. In addition to the PUA material, start reading personal development books and articles.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 11:38 pm 
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I completely feel you. I need to learn pick-up/seduction and I actually found something that helped - here it is...

pro-millionaire[dot]com/seductionsecrets.php


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:21 am 
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in order to be successful at picking up girls you need to have a strong inner game which i am working on right now. because without inner game your not going to feel confident as you are right now so you need a strong mentality. so before i go out i just re-read this so i can memorize this in my head here's the link below.

confidence-how-to-show-it-even-if-you-d ... 37898.html

and heres another one im doing the 30 days challenge just basically saying hi and approaching a woman.

overcoming-approach-anxiety-vt1672.html


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 12:52 pm 
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You should try the NEWBIE MISSION posted by chief in general questions ! All the best friend !

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