Ok three set, two HB7's and HB9
I use an opinon opener, and although I'm screaming because the music is so loud it hooks. I play a quick game with them and they love it. After about 5 minutes I tell them I have to rejoin my friends. At this point the HB9 had been giving me IOI's. I take the cheap necklace i was wearing and put it around her neck, then I tell her I want it back before the end of the night. i walk off.

I bump into her later on near the dance floor. And manage to lock in with her. I see the necklace was gone, and i ask her where it is. She doesnt know where it went and is apologising. I tell her she has to make it up to me. "How" she asks. "You have to give me one dance" I replied.

She agree's. I approach her friends, and ask if I can borrow her friend for 5 minutes. I assure them i will bring her back. They agree.
We dance, and she is all over me. Kiss close. For the record, she smelled AMAZING, small things like that make a difference! I get her number, and sms her when I get home
She replied:
I waited 2 or 3 days then called.

ME: Hey HB9, it's alex..how are you?
HB: hey im good thanks u??
ME: listen i had a great night on saturday and i was thinking we should hang out again, what are you upto this wednesday?
HB: Im babysitting etc etc.
ME: and thursday?
HB: i cant thursday i have a friends 21st birthday party..what about friday night?
ME: hmm I can do Friday night but I will have to meet you later I have a friends birthday dinner that night, ill be finished at about 10.
HB: ok cool,
ME: well, ill tell you what ill give you a call in a couple of days and we can work out the specifics.
HB: awesome..
ME: Bye.

Friday Morning

ME: hey its alex, how are you HB?
HB: blah blah
ME: ok so tell me, have you and your friends made plans yet for tonight?
HB: no, i havnt spoken to them
ME: ok well why dont you get hold of them and see if they wanna come out with me and my friends, if not and its just you, there is this great place I know that we could meet up...so give me a call back when you know what is happening.
HB: okay i will
ME:bye

She didnt call. Here are my thoughs on why.
1. not enough comfort on Day 1
2. AFC phone game

Now im sure ive lost her, but i'm gonna still push it. here are my thoughts
1. Call her tommorow and ask her what happened...my attitude being a) calling her on her bullshit, b)showing her it doesnt phase me c)not being pissed off but cocky funny etc

Or
2. sms her now and say something like:
As I type that in i realise how shit it is, but that's what i typed into my phone and was about to send before I decided to make this post. lol help.

any thoughts on the phone/sms game?

I think your problems lie in asking rather than telling her what you want. Rather than asking her what she's doing on a particular day, tell her what you are doing and that you would like her to join you. Rather than asking if her and her friends have plans, tell her your plans and that you would like them to join you.

Also, texting her immediately after getting home from kiss closing her telling her you had a great time? You should have waited a day or two.

Rather than sending a text like the last one (asking her why she didn't call), I'd make a short and sweet one instead saying something like, "I had fun last night. You were great!". Screw with her mind, then take it over.

yeah phone game was kinda weak, I probably know you feel though. I used to just wanna use the phone only to meet up, making the phone calls short and to the point, hoping to use my charm to attract in PERSON. But somehow I never ended up meeting some girls.

lots of AFC in your post, get a handle on that, read and study...

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thanks for the comments..TRS ure right about not asking, but telling.. I think my game went out the window after the * close..i havnt had much practice on phone game, ive been doing a bit of reading tho.

in regard to the sms when I got home, i sent it for two reasons.
1) i wanted her to have my number
2) i wanted her to remember me
while it may sound AFC, i think ive heard of a couple of mPUA's who do this. They say it conveys confidence i think? But then again perhaps the content of their messages are a little different.

with the day 2, is it standard game to ask her to join you and your friends? whats wrong with just 1 on 1?
The good news is i do about 1-2 hours of reading/study everyday, and im sarging about 3 times a week..hopefully improving

Some info i read online re: phone game
- Refer to a personal joke
- tell a story
- dont try and escalate, only run comfort
- Mystrey says call, but dont make plans. This will f*ck with her head, then on call 2 ask her out.

cheers


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