im 17
when i start making out wiith my girl and touching and all, i get a boner
when she sucks it, it gets hard as a rock and shit, but when i pull out her panties, it dies. When i go down on her, i masturbate to get it up again and then put on the condom. if i take too long with the condom setting, it dies! i know i can't have erectile disfunction, cause i'm fucking 17 and before taking her panties off its hard as hell, but when is time to act, it flunks, im pissed at it lol.

could it be that i get nervous about giving her an orgasm? and that might be causing it?
thanks.

Get her pants off then start making out with her. Seriously, maybe I'm not normal, but when I get laid, there's usually at least 45min of foreplay after getting undressed. Just go that route..... Take clothes off... foreplay afterwards... when feeling confident about your wood... then put jimmy on and go for it...


Don't worry too much. Most women don't really go off too much until they're in their mid 20's. When you get into your 30's and cannot get a women close to your age off, THEN you're in big trouble...

When women hit about 30 they get kinda wild. I've read articles by Dr's saying women hitting their sexual peak in the 30's is a myth. But I'm thinking these experts do not get laid much... Every gf I've had since my mid-20's was a screamer, biter, or back scratcher and loved having sex....

The title of this thread is whiskey dick - but then you don't mention any alcohol in the post. By 'whiskey dick' do you mean you have this problem only when you have had a few drinks? It's not 'whiskey dick' just because you can't keep it hard if you've not had a drink, hence why 'whiskey' is in the name!

In this instance (and assuming from what you've put that it isn't related to alcohol), then it sounds like nerves. I'm going to guess that you've either not had much sex before or/and that if you have it wasn't great (which is usual at first by the way!)

To me, it sounds like it may be performance anxiety as you say. If that's the case, try getting her off through oral or fingers first or whatever. Ask her what she likes if needs be. If you've done a good job before you get to the actual sex, then your performance then isn't as important.

Finally, get out of your head and just enjoy it. Maybe even try believing that you are a fucking sex god in your head. And remember that everyone has some sort of issue when they're new to it, either they are in the same boat as you or it goes drastically wrong or whatever.

It's clearly a mental thing not a physical one, so just chill and relax about it.

yeah, my english isn't that good and i found that expression and i thought it ment like a weak erection, and yes you are right, i havent had much sex before, in fact i've never finished with her. thanks it really helps

Maybe its performance anxiety. The only other advice is to stop masturbating. You'll be rock hard all day long.

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