Hey, thanks for reading this, guys. I'm not a fan of online methods, but... hey, I wasn´t going to waste this chance.

A year ago, a girl added me to her friends list on facebook; amazingly she was a HB 9 (Sorry if I suck at qualifying). We started talking right away, and we really had a good synchro... she laughted to all my jokes, make a lot of IOIs, we had common interests, negs worked fine.... and all the good stuff. She used to talk to me every day on a regular basis. The thing is that i make my move and I asked her to go out somewhere, but she says to me "I don´t date guys i'm only out with my friends". I assumed that was a shit test, so I re-answered the petition in many forms, directly, indirectly... you know, jokes, negs whatever. She says to me that she never had a boyfriend, that she doesn´t go out with guys; that she only goes with her friends to discos only to dance... Well, weird shit (I was expecting a "I have a boyfriend" st) after serveral tryes I stopped talking to her, but she still talked to me every 2-3 days.

Months passed, and eventually she invites me with her friends to a disco she knows. Of course, I went (I wasn´t going to chicken out now) and we really had a good time on there, I even befriended her friends... one of them said to me that she was a antisocial being before, and nowadays no; but she never goes out with guys; she even rejected serveral guys on the field. I tried to scalate her only to get, that she started to ignore me... but all in good therms. To this point I was really confused, "maybe is a new form of friendzone" I thought.

The next day she sended me a funny picture on FB about a common joke that we both know, and i take that chance.. and talked to her why she didnt want something with me. She says "you´re only a stranger to me", "I don´t go out with guys, and less with strangers".

Well... I was like WTF? (we chatted for months on fb and she is relative to one of my friends, so I'm pretty sure i'm not just a stranger). I tried to solve the situation by saying to go out only as friends .. whatever. It didn´t work. She still chats with me usually, but I try to sound cold and distant.

So, do not what to think... the only thing I know its that I was put a step lower from friendzoned! Pathetic!

So, It would be could if you can give me a hand with this, because is driving me crazy.

PD= No, She is not a lesbian xD. By her own words she thinks that all guys are the same shit.

a couple of years ago i hooked up with a woman that i had been trying to seduce for 17 years, how patient are you?:)

i ain't the guy to take advice from but you might try banging one of her friends and see if she finds your attention/affection integral to her overall happiness

Well, thanks for answering. I used to be very patient, but lets say that nowadays i'm running out of it (I work as a teacher, and well... patience is the first thing you lose). I'll try to work with her friends, but I dont know... this girl is weird...

... Wow 17 years??! I admire such perseverance! (I suposse it was worth it )
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Ahh... I had forgotten that she gave me her cell number... maybe i just try to text her (?)

i guess the important thing is to avoid getting hung up on any one girl. i just wouldn't ask if she is interested, if you see her again just confidently begin with some kino/touching and try to escalate. if spurned, move on

When I saw her I tried to start kino with her, she didn´t scape nor complain xD but she turn her face to a side, as she was ignoring me.

How sexual are you being with her?

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Very little, we suggested things during chat "sessions", but normally she seemed to avoid that issue. Ah, and it isn´t a religious thing, because she's an atheist.

So, i'm clueless.

Are you escalating the sexual frame? It is up to you to move forward being sexual, she will not throw herself onto you, well not at first anyhow!

Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Well, The point is that every time I tried to escalate her, at least via chat, she answers with a joke or other kind of diversion, to avoid the issue. To be honest, I find "online game" difficult in regard to create the feeling of sexual tension; even so i'm truly a noob so I guess, I can learn.