Hey all,

I've been having some trouble lately freezing up in a set or getting caught of guard
by something the girl will say. What I mean by getting caught of guard is I just freeze
and can't think of something good to say like something witty or funny. I think it just
might be my mind set and the particular mood I'm in but what are some tricks or tips
that some of you use to kind of get out of being froze up and caught off guard?

Thanks in advance.

First of all this is quite common, I think it can be related with approach anxiety but it’s completely normal – especially at the beginning- being nervous when you are talking to a girl. Let’s face it, is not easy talking to a complete stranger and trying to be charming/polite/smart at the same time. My advice for you is to work on your aa, this video can help you out with that
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbjRPDV ... ature=plcp

About freezing up, when this happens most guys come up with a very personal question trying “safe” the interaction with “ Tell me your biggest fear” just keep it simple, less is more.

Here you have 11 tips can be useful in your situation.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmd ... ature=plcp
Good luck!

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Thanks for the links, there is some good info. I think its simply a case of thinking too much and putting the pressure on my self. I will work at it and overcome.

No problem, the worst thing you can do is put pressure on yourself. Just be patient and take it easy.
Godd luck

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

Why do you have to be witty or funny? Fuck that. If you are naturally not witty or funny, why do you force yourself to be? Chances are, the girl will notice you're trying too hard and she will think something not too positive about it.

Some people say you GOTTA be bright and smart and witty and funny and whatever in order to wet the madmoiselle's pantaloons. Truth is, there is no ONE TRUTH. Do whatever the hell you want. In fact,you probably would be doing a favor to yourself if you told her: I'm not witty or funny, but this is who I am. Take me or leavre me. Either she gon like you or not, but pretending to be something you're not is like trying to sell watered-down gasoline for the price of regular, and then the customer later on finds out that she purchased something falsely advertised. Better to be upfront from the start. Just my opinion.

Thanks for the input Alex. Truthfully I am pretty quick witted and good humoured. However, I guess my post originally was coming from a stand point as of lately. It almost seems like Ive "lost it" a little bit. But I think it could quite simply be that I'm thinking too much about it and not just being myself in the first place.

Exbar.