Guys, honestly, when she looks u in the eyes, smiles and say's something like that, what can u posible say/do, and not end up eihter holding her purse and losing your "value" or being a dick AND losing your "value" =/ Help?

i don't necessarily have a response to her request, but i would immediately start rummaging through her belongings if she left me alone with her bag.

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Lol, ok, theres got 2 b something more...ermm.... legal ^^

HB: "Hold my purse I'll be back."

JUSTINcredible:
"RIIIIIGHT" Sarcastic "girl is you crazy?" look.
Find a nearby AFC. Draw him into your set.
"Hey man have you met my friend (HB)?" no pause.
"Here hold this. remember to smile."

fluff convo talk till she returns.

"HEY theres the princess! What a great guy (afc) here is for watching your purse. Hes so nice. Thank him. I was gonna trade it in for drinks but (afc) here is such a nice guy to hold it for you.
See thats why you and I would never work out. . . ."



JUSTINcredible!
"Why do it? and lower your value, when someone else can."

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I would jsut say, ok but I'm gonna find out all your secrets! If she's fine with it I would jsut go use the bag as an opener to open some other girls until she returns. Do the whole girly ''Do you like my new purse'' thing. It's even better when they saw you talk to the girl and game her, then she handed you her purse, and you jsut turn around and open them.

Lol, I like them all, I actually see myself runing them in seperate ocasions ^^

Cleared a problem for me, THX!

Great information in this post. To be honest - I don't know what I'd have done in that situation if I didn't get a few ideas from those that contributed. It's a strange situation to be put in.

nah this isnt really that strange however it does happen a lot when you've known the girl for a while. However if you just hold it and sit/stand by yourself you will look like a fool and lose value. However if you use it as a prop and joke around with it you gain value

Hmm.. I like 3 hands's little bit there. Great way to merge sets.

I'm kinda iffy on this topic though. On one hand, it's a shit test that she can make you her little monkey. But on the other hand that's her fucking purse, which is like 30% of her life. She's trusting 30% of her life with you. That's some powerful shit guys.

What I think would happen if you reject this, is that she's going to see that when she wants to trust you with something, she can't. And that'll seriously fuck up any rapport you may have established.

Ye, B Rob has a point here, but I think, if u have heavy rapport, u take it like a man (that has a purse) and if u have small rapport, then u make fun of it, use it as prop. with a C&F attitude, sounds good?

Leaving her purse with you is good - she trusts you quite a lot when she does this. If she has already complied to you then show her some compliance by holding her purse. You could even use it for a opinion opener... "What do you guys think of men with purses? Is it a sign that they are masculine enough to pull it off or is it a sign that they are gay?" - or some crazy stuff like that. You will most likely get some laughs this way and you will gain value.

Best of luck

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Yeah leaving her purse with you is not a bad thing.

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This could be a sign that she trusts you, or it could be her trying to make you jump through a little hoop for her. You would have to make a judgement, probably based on where you are in gaming her and the way she says it.

Do what Lovedrop says. If she tries to get you to jump through her little hoop, get her to jump through one of your first, then your even. I can't think of an example right now but you get the idea...Make her do a little spinny dance move and kiss you on the cheek or something.

I've actually done that.
No she is fucking using you!
Be like she owes you a dance or a drink...

Seriously, leaving a bag/purse is not that much of a trust thing. Even if it is, hell, that trust won't be broken just cause you say (I say) "NO! Do I look like your [insert] average frustrated (:P) chump that'll hold your bag?"
There's only one positive thing I see in holding the bag. That she'll return. Then again she wouldn't leave it with you if she wanted to leave.

This is all win