Socializing with a beautiful woman...[HELP ME]



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PostPosted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:02 pm 
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Hi guys, I need outstanding advice with my current problem.

I've not always been that smooth with the ladies, but I'm not a total failure. I've been wanting to talk to this girl that's intimidatingly beautiful, but I just can't find the right setting to talk to her in, or know what exactly to say.

Some signs I picked up on says she atleast likes me, but I'm the problem, not her. I don't know how to lead small talk, or a decent conversation that's not too short. I know how to jump into a conversation, it's just I don't know where to go with one.

Another problem is I'm comfortable talking to girls that aren't attractive, but the ones that're hott are the ones that I just DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. I need courage, and I need confidence. If anyone has any suggestions, PLEASE help me and reply.

I'm in Highschool by the way, and don't have any classes with her, but I've known her for awhile. I see her in lunch every now and then, along with in the halls, or after-school, if you have any suggestions of what to say during these settings, tell me please!

(ANY TIPS HELP!)


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Well any easy practice to get over this problem, and help in future instances is talk to all women. Talk about everything. That will get you used to talking to girls, attractive or unattractive, and comfortable with talking to HBs.

As for you current situation, a good concept to remember is that she should want your attention. So start conversation by talking about yourself. This will get her to ask you questions, and throw in statements about herself.

Everyone's favorite conversation is themselves, so either talk about yourself or get her to talk about herself.


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