Never ran into this one before.....Girl even has on her profile, "I'm currently off the market because I found an amazing guy..blah blah" I didn't notice that upon messaging her..but..what?

Wellll...why you still on a dating site???


ME: Opener
HB: Oh wow. Hah ok. Yeah, we can talk and stuff, but I'm not looking for a relationship either. I found one. But I still would like to be a friend


My question is...why she still active on an online dating site if shes not still looking for something........and how to go about this....i'm just tryin to smash, reason i was upfront with her in my opener about not wanting a relationship

She has found a guy that is compatable enough that she wants to see if they will work, however, she does not want to stop looking for something better if they come along...I am 90% sure this girl will meet and fuck, if you play your cards right!

I had a girl that did this exact same thing while I was living in New Orleans, I moved away in Aug'11 but we still meet randomly on the weekends as FWB. Mine found a new guy a couple months ago so we stopped talking, ironically I got this message last night "Hey Babe".

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

I would not waist my energy trying to figure out what she is trying to accomplish, it is irrelevant.
You will find yourself fighting an up hill battle and getting frustrated over nothing.

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haha thats cool dude....could you drop some extra knowledge on me, as to how i could play my cards right based off what she said?

My opener pretty much stated: you're cute, thought that was all you had going on, read your profile and looked at your pics, sense there is more than meets the eye..im not looking for a relationship, i'm not opposed to them, but things we want usually come to us when we aren't looking for them...so in the mean time im looking for a cool ass girl to chill with...........that pretty much sums up the opener.

I duno how to go about it....she said she would still like to be a friend despite being in a relationship......should I bring up FWB? What do ya think?

No, talk to her and build a little comfort. Once you have that out of the way then find a clever way to indirectly invite her for a coffee/drink. Once you have her in your presence game her...If she is FWB material, she will be pretty easy to get in the sack and if you hit it right, she will come back for more!

Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood