How am I suppose to know if I'm getting an IOI from someone online and we live very far apart?

if you have to ask this question man you honestly shouldn't be gaming online.. in addition, why in the devils name are you gaming a girl far away?

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If she is going to drive far to see you I would take that as an IOI.

GTF off the internet and get out there, bro.

Lol I was just wondering and I met her online and I think that she's a cool person.

Well, one thing I've learned is that until you've actually met, you have
no idea what she is like... really.

You can get an idea by what she says in her emails/profile, but you have
no idea how long it took her to say it. She can sit down for 4 hours to
come up with the perfect 3 sentence email... same with you.

The only IOI I would say is certain via email is the fact that she writes you back.

DO NOT set anything up via email. Get her on the phone as soon as possible.

Screen her over the phone and see how she handles everyday conversation,
then play it from there.

We instant message each other. So, the hours of thinking of what to say would be out. lol

Online IOI

1 if she replies to your mail and conversation starts

2 if she contacts you

3 if she ads you to her favourites list

4 if she sends mail when you have no replied back

5 she gives you her e-mail address or phone no.

7 says she likes your photo or compliments you

8 ask's alot of questions

9 replies back to mail you sent her days ago

10 the conversation is flirty and she jokes alot

Webcam?

Seriously, why are you worrying about gaming someone who lives far away? Get out of the house.

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Alright, guys. Chill out. He's just asking a simple question, give him a break.


Hey, buddy.
If you're new to the community, then welcome!

I'm just going to say that sarging online is really not something that anyone
on here would recommend, because you can't build kino, you can't officially
build comfort, you can't see the IOIs (your problem) and there's no way to
begin a sexual relationship.

So, if you're really insistent upon meeting this girl, then you have to set up a
time and place to meet her. If you want, you can meet her half way. That
will make things more fair.

In short, it's very hard to detect IOIs online, but there are definitely ways
of figuring out if she likes you or not.

My suggestion to you, like the others have already said, is to go out and
sarge in person. Sarging online just makes it seem like you have no
confidence and you don't want to talk face-to-face.

Good luck, buddy. Keeps us posted on your progress!