What is your go-to opener?



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 1:28 am 
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I randomly thought of mine one day and it's been my go-to ever since. I'm sure it's already been thought of by someone else but whatever.

I go up to a girl and introduce myself/shake her hand. Then I'll make a bunch of
predictions about them on the spot. For example, it will go something like this:

"So, Jessica, you're 22. You moved here from...Dallas. No, Houston. No, AUSTIN! Yes, that's it. Austin.

You originally stated out as a...Psych major, but switched because well, Psych sucks. You're now a...Bio major because you now aspire to go to Vet school. Where the real players roll.

...and now you're working as a waitress to support yourself through school."

Before I commit to a prediction I'll pause for a second and create a "Hmm...what could it be" expression on my face. It adds some fun to the situation as well as making it come off as material that isn't canned.

I've made this my defult approach for a couple reasons. First, it solves my massive problem I've always had which is running out of stuff to say and aborting early. With this approach I have countless responses poping into my head and have sort through which I want to say. It's also straight forward and doesn't give them the impression that you're trying to win them over with a bunch of lines you read in a book.

Second, although it's not really a 'direct approach', it kind of is. It shows you're obviously interested in her without really putting yourself out there too much.

Third, since a good portion are smiling while I'm rambling on I find it very easy to give intimate EC.

Forth, chicks LOVE talking about themselves and love hearing about what people assume about them and why.

If I'm sarging a few girls at once I'll just do a real quick "Jennifer, 22, Bio major" and go down the line. I'll also shorten it if I'm in a loud environment where it isn't really practical to give a long winded opener.

If doing day game in a place like a grocery store you'll need to break the ice with something else (such as talking about items in her cart), but other than that, it's perfectly applicable in those situations as well.

I generally ramble on about stupid bullshit without creating attraction with verbiage, but instead talk slowly and hold seductive EC to get the job done.

I'll then close with a "Do you text?"

"Yeah..."

"Give me your number. I'll send you a witty text, I won't even tell you who I am." (Yes, I stole that from the guy that created the 'Penis Pick Up' video, but it's awesome)

I've had great success with this technique.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 4:59 am 
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I just go whatever feel like... most times it pretty AFC thing but I'm not in my head but in momentum that just feel so different and girls feel it.

- hey, I'm gonna flirt with you... so deal with it

- hey.......what should I say ?

- hey

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 4:11 pm 
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Hi. I have a rule where I have to come talk to every attractive girl I see, so congratulations. You don't get a trophy or anything, but you do get to meet me.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 1:53 am 
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Whatever works the best. People usually fall into two camps when it comes to the opener:

1. Whatever they believe is the best opener.
2. People who tell you to just open with anything.

Of course what they fail to take into account is that everyone is different and what works for one person might not work for someone else. That's why I always say to test your openers.

You should always have two openers. Whatever worked the best in the past and the opener you are trying out this week. Keep the best one and dump the other. Then repeat.

There is a reason that anyone who gets even remotely good at pickup seems to use the same opener over and over again. You want something that works without having to worry about your opener. That way you can be focused on the interaction.

If you can't open around 80% of the time or better then there is something wrong. Sure, some days you'll be perfect with your approaches, but most of the time there will be a certain number of women that aren't interested no matter what you have to say. The trick is to not dwell on those women who aren't interested (even if it does go against human nature).

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 2:04 am 
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I just saw you over there and I had to come over here and meet you, you seem chill, promise me your not weird... then smile.

Follow up

What you doing here, what ur plans, comment something she wearing.

Stop thinking about openers thats the reason u have AA just go up and talk

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Hey what's up?

Hey how's it going?

They are easy natural and at the very least get a small rebuttal with conversation skills you can turn even rebuttals like "nothing" or "it's going good" into a conversation.

Most of my openers are Natural, this makes them situational http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... fect-open/ . It gets boring going the canned route, it's just not entertaining for me or them.

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Hi I think your attractive so i had to introduce myself * Shakes her hand*


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