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Nicely put. But it's not as much becoming someone else, it's about improving yourself. If a person is a shy one, he needs to absorb confidence from somewhere and a good place to start is a role model or a few. If i want to expand my wardrobe and i know my style i can watch what might look good on me from someone i know has a good style. Being yourself you still have got a bunch of influences who have made you who you are. Take whatever and whereever you can but make it your own.
I really like that line well put on your end.
I understand expanding your wardrobe but half the time I choose clothes unlike anyone else. My goal is to not be like anyone from a style standpoint. I never want to walk in a room and say oh shit same shirt, nope not me. I always stand out with my own style. Though I'm getting ready to formalize saving up for a bigger suit closet.
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If you gain pieces of yourself from lots of different characters that would make sense because we are all a present collage of our past selves, but don't just copy somebody their style, diction, body language and voice.
So I agree with you. I understand the though process to it but I just don't like the idea of trying to be someone else. There are tons of cool cats but idolizing "attractive guys" seems a little out of line because some of us will just never be as good looking as Brad Pitt (I know I won't lol), so it can be a horrible thing. It's like women being forced to compare themselves to super models, same stupid concept to me. It would be better to be fans of personalities such as Vince Vaughn who use wit, and humor to illustrate high value and build attraction even though they don't have shit (Dodge Ball). Just a few thoughts.
I did like the Hank Moody remark, he has character, intelligence, wit, and humor. His style is building attraction by merely illustrating the I don't care but lets just have a great fucking time attitude.
Tyler Durden fucked one trashy woman, it's not as if he was a real ladies man. So when you look at PUA using an asshole who bangs trashy women, has a severe psychosis issue, and is unrealistically attractive as a role model is a huge mistake. Why not look to guys like Tom Cruise in Cocktail, Vince Vaughn in Swingers or Wedding Crashers. Jason Stathom in The Italian Job. Simon Baker in Sex and Death 101. These are all guys who just have an attitude and seem to just get women with ease, with an attitude, they illustrate confidence perfectly. They also show how easy it is to build attraction using attitude and personality(though they are all still very good looking, there game is in there personality, confidence, and attitude).
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