SO I RECENTLY BUMPED INTO A GIRL AT A PARTY THAT I WENT TO COLLEGE WITH ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO. I SPOKE TO HER A VIEW TIMES BUT NEVER SEALED THE DEAL. SHE SPOTTED ME AT THE PARTY HER AND HER FRIENDS THEN MINGLED WITH OURS I THEN DIDNT WANT TO HOVER AROUND HER AND HER FRIENDS SO I WENT AND MADE SOCIAL BUBBLES ALL AROUND... AT THE END OF THE NIGHT I WAS LIKE "IM LEAVING" SHE SAID "REALLY WHERE TOO?" I SAID " HERE PUT YOUR NUMBER IN MY PHONE AND ILL LET YOU KNOW" WORKED I THEN TEXT HER ABOUT 30 MINS LATER SHE CAME OVER BUT WE DIDNT HOOK UP SINCE HER FRIENDS WERENT REALLY TRYING TO CHILL AT 4AM SO I TEXT HER 3 DAYS LATER WITH TIME CONSTRAINTS AND THE TEXTING IS ALL GOOD AND FUN WITH A BUNCH OF "LOLS" AND "LMFAO" I DO WANT TO MEET UP BUT AT THIS POINT I THINK IM A LITTLE NERVOUS AND AM AFRAID TO BLOW IT... ANY TIPS ON HOW I SHOULD ASK HER ON A DATE? AND WHAT TO DO WHEN WE ARE OUT?

woah woah woah easy with the caps.

Firstly, this is 2012, how do you not know what a "caps lock" key does? Turn it off - when read, it just sounds like shouting and looks really stupid.

Well firstly - stop being nervous. Be cool "dawg". Because the good news for you is, your holding back, yet socialising and "playing it cool" seems to have come off as high value. I can tell from the very reason she is keen to meet up. Otherwise she would have assumed you didn't know what to do and would have cut you out as an option.

Since you know how to "socialise" and come off as "high value" with "time constraints" etc. it should be very easy for you to continue in this fashion and keep doing the things that got her interested. And honestly it doesn't matter what you do - make sure there is opportunity to talk, and yet some interesting distractions if possible, ideally some place you're comfortable in.

HOWEVER...

...since you are inexperienced at the same time, it's very likely you will get to the point where you really need to show some interest back, even just a bit - and out of fear, you will still "play it cool" and in that moment, you will lose her INSTANTLY. So fucking fast you won't know what hit you. What you're going to have to do, is, keep doing your thing, don't stop, don't be shaken by nerves at any point (and even if you are, do what you think is the "right" thing to do at that moment, to be confidence), however, you're going to have to be extra attentive to how she's feeling. If she's standing in front of you, smiling at you, a little too close, it means she wants to be kissed, and you should do it. If she asks "Will we meet again?" or something to that effect, you should say "absolutely, that was awesome" - yes be cool but notice the positive response. So many guys trained in PUA get to this point and say something like "Yeah maybe soon" or something like that, and bam, she's hurt and she's gone, you'll never hear from her again - or you will but it will be her just trying to avoid contact with you politely.

So - keep being cool, but become extra attentive to her vibe, with the goal of using this as training to become very good at reading how women are feeling. When in doubt, just make a move. If rejected, play it cool and move on like nothing happened, keep the positive energy. Don't hold back or you may miss an opportunity.