Last night I did not close.. ( I had a few options but unfortunately If I would have closed it would have caused problems and drama with my friends, so I let it go)

Anyway.. Here is what I learned...

BE THE MAN
When you walk into a bar, turn your energy up to 110%.. OWN the place.. Get in the mind set that NO MATTER WHAT you are going to have a good time.. Others will see that and want to get on your level.

DONT "TRY" TOPICK UP WOMEN
Style said it best..
"There is nothing worse then a guy that has nothing better to do then pick up women"
When you go out.. go out to have fun.. If you see a pretty girl, go talk to her... Don't even think about picking her up.. Your in the mind set that YOU are having a good time and your being nice enough to extend an invitation for HER to join you..

BE SURE TO ENGAGE THE GROUP
Don't set all of your attention to the girl you into... Make her work for it.. as far as she is concerned your just having a good time.. make her want to get on your level...
If you just give her all your attention.. she will know whats going on...


YOU CONVEY WHAT YOU FEEL
If you feel like an AFC you will look like an AFC... Get in the mindset that you are the man and you are just having the best time ever.. and you will show that.. and everyone will want to be on your level..




This might be some simple stuff, but keep in mind I'm an AFC.. (hence my name "AFCME123")



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Great post. I agree on the importance of mindset!