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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 9:45 am 
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Hey guys.

I have the balls to approach but I just can't get a girl interested.

I usually talk to a girl, tease her, and then she just walks away.

I kinda get lost after that.

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PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 11:30 am 
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This usually happens at the beginning ant it is quite common so don’t you worry about it. The kind of questions that you ask when you first meet someone are really important, you can’t just ask someone you met “ Tell me your biggest fear” Do you know what I mean? Keep things simple but don’t start asking random question or is gonna look like an interview. I’m sure this video can help you out with this and other sticking points.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmd ... ature=plcp

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It didn't really help me :/

But I'll do what I can. Thanks anyway.

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do you tell these girls why you are talking with them?

how do you get their attention to speak with them?

how is your image, do you keep yourself healthy? what sort of style are you rocking? is your hair all done?, do you look nice and presentable?, are you clean and smelling nice when going out?

how do you feel at the start of an approach?, are all these girls walking away from you?, or do you walk away from them when it doesn't go how you wanted it to go for the first few seconds?


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Shadow your PUA evolution of successful approaching to opening to unsuccessfully gaining attraction is typical. This is just where you are at now and everyone goes through this on their path.

Very likely, as pump said, the biggest issue is your confidence, body language, and ability to captivate your target. When you make a strong impression that a girl senses is high value not only will she be more responsive she will automatically be friendlier. The girl may have no romantic interest in you but she will almost always respect a confident approach and blow offs will just become dead convo's at worst.

Have a friend or wingman video or criticize your approach, I can guarantee once you become more confident and comfortable your response reaction will go way up.


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Usually I just ask what time it is. Then reinterpret what they said and tease them for it.

I guess I can follow up with a magic trick with my cards.

But I'll try it out an I'll carry myself more confidently next time.

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PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 8:51 pm 
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10:1 that you talk too much, the trick is to get her talking as quickly as possible, then she will have no reason to leave. You'll find a lot of useful advice in my thread linked below. Let me know if you have any questions

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