I was introduced to this foreign girl a few weeks ago through a mutual friend. Essentially I told our mutual friend that I thought the foreign chick was cute.

So one week later I meet the Foreign girl at a bar and she asks me if I want to take her on a road trip the next day. She says, "it is not a date!" So I invite two bros and another girl. Basically one of my bros acts like a cockblocker the entire trip and at the end of the night, he drives her home and asks for her number. He joins her to a festival the next day. There she keeps telling him "it is not a date" and talks about her ex boyfriends with him. Long story short he evidently got annoyed and started talking about his ex. Hahaha Nothing happened between them. I did not go along with them (just to clarify).

So anyway, the next day the foreign girl, the cockblocker of a friend and myself go out together. I am really on top of my game and am expecting her to tell me it's not a date. So I start treating her like my little sister, joking a lot and always laughing. She keeps touching my arm A LOT, teasing me, keeping eye contact. I think she tries to shit test me a bit so I tell her jokingly "this is not a date" and continue to tell her she is acting like my bratty little sister. We are both laughing. Meanwhile the cockblocker of a friend is acting all quiet and she jokes that he is bipolar. Hahaha

So that evening, her and I go to the movies together. She drives me home. When I want to kiss her she looked down so I just grabbed her hand and kissed her on each cheek. The signals weren't there to kiss her.

The next day she texted me in the evening:

Her: Hey how are u? Yesterday was great; have u been to your appointment yet? good luck

Me: I had my appointment. Went well. How r u?

Her: Cool now i hope u can sleep better knowing everytng is fine. Today its my clumpsy day: my glasses were broken.by the way the window car is sorted it out:) good night crazy

Me: Ohhh haha you will have to tell me about your clumsy day Ms. Name next time we look for parking;) wanna hang on Friday?

Her: Yes for sure; but i want to discover new places; lets go to another club or casino to do sthg different by the way add me right now in the facebook; no comments haha i want to put ur cool pic

Me: Okay I will be your tour guide of the "beautiful" and "charming" city of X. Haha I added u on Fb. Now I can comment on all your pictures. Haha;) •devils laugh• Add the photos from Road trip.


So she is probably just looking for friends and the keeping eye contact means she is confident, the touching is cultural, etc. i have kinoed her a lot.

What do you guys think? After I gave it back to her (I.e, this is not a date; or you're my bratty lil sister) she stopped acting like it's a privilege to be dating her. Haha Also, I did joke with her about having a threesome. It was said in a joking way, and then I increased the joke to "no let's have a six some tonight at the hotel. Haha she laughed.
She never responded to my last text btw. Arghhh!!!


What do u guys thing?

Cheers!!

I'm relatively new to the PUA scene so these are just my opinions based on what you wrote.

Sounds to me like she's throwing you some IOI's and I don't know how long it's been since you sent her that last text but it sounds like you sent it earlier this evening? If that's the case then you shouldn't sweat it, she did say "good night" so she might have just gone to sleep and either not seen the text or just not bothered with responding because she wanted to get some sleep, don't sweat it. Even if it's been longer than that I wouldn't worry because she contacted you to begin with and asked you to add her on facebook and agreed right away to see you on friday so I'd say she's definitely signaling some interest there.

Treating her like a bratty sister is a very good move and it builds attraction so I'd say keep throwing things like that in the conversation along with building a bit of sexual tension in the conversation (note that there's a difference between building sexual tension and being a creep and some guys don't realize where the line is) and on top of that I'd say you should try to kino escalate to a kiss-close when you meet her on friday.

Cool thanks man! So what do you suggest as far as throwing in sexual tension?

The "secret" behind building sexual tension is letting her know you are interested in her sexually without coming off too strong. The way you do this is by using innuendos and double entendres (double meanings) so saying things that fit normally into the conversation but can be understood as sexual if taken out of context for example if you are meeting up you could say something like: "you are making me come down there" or something like that, this both makes it seem like she is gaming you i.e. "you are making me" and it also has the double entendre of "come down there". If she talks about liking swimming you could say something along the lines of "so you like to get wet " which would be a bit stronger and more obvious double entendre.

Being a creep would be saying straight out that you want to fuck her or something like that, but I think you could still get away with stuff like that in certain situations with certain girls though.

Cool. Thanks! So basically she sent me a text tonight asking if I wanted to meet her at a bar at 8 with her friends (and to bring my friends). I didn't respond right away as I was really busy. So after three hours or so, she sends me a post on FB asking I wanted to go and to call her. I just sent her a text cause I wasn't in the mood to call. I told her I couldn't make it tonight and asked if we were still hanging tomorrow. No reply!

I am mostly into this game to meet chicks and hook up but I kinda like this girls personality. So I am dropping her; I am not gonna chase after someone whose body language was against me from the first beginning while she opened up to the attractive guy. Next! If she is not gonna respond to my texts, NEXT! I feel like she is waiting for something better to open up and she's keeping me on the back burner. I am making plans with someone else and if she contacts me, I'll tell her I can't make it.

I am doing the permanent freezeout with a few chicks recently and perhaps I am not persistent enough but I know she isn't into me in that way. If she were, she'd jump at the situation to go out with me.

Cheers Mates!