Ok guys, i am new at this, i am not a player per say, but i know a few things from self experience of what to do and not to do with relationships.

I will start telling my story now.

I am a seismic qc engineering, i make a good salary, and i work offshore, 5 weeks on and off, and i can live anywhere in the world 5h from an airport. I also work out, i know the importance of keeping looking good, i am 29 years old.

A few months ago i met this polish girl on a party, she is young, like 21, but she is a 10, for sure. When i met her, i was going to my offshore job, and then we just exchanged a few words, and she touched me a lot, we were dancing all night. She is in erasmus also, so she left for Poland and i leave for my work. Then after i came back, she already returned to the country we met, and was like always partying..

I was trying to have a date with her, and i did it last night, i arranged a date, and we kissed, there.. but then she told me she met someone else, and was in love with both of us? I know this kind of shit is frequent with young girls since her hormones are jumping all over the place. Today i didnt say shit to her, i was thinking in calling either tomorrow or after, the thing is she havent said shit to me too. Ok what i wanted inicially was a serious thing, but now that i know she has a guy and still kisses me, gets her hands all over my body and stuff, i dont want anything serious. I just want to fuck her, and see where it goes from there. Any tips u guys can help me with? Sorry about the spelling. Thanks in advance!




Oh and also, she will be leaving the country permanently on 29 of next month, so i am also tight on time. I might had that girls like that are really rare here, and unless i move to poland i will not set my eyes on a piece of ass like that here. Should i just ignore her, keep ignoring until she says something? Even though i am tight on time? Or should i just call here soon and set up another date, hopefully one that ends with fucking?

Or should i just forget about the kisses and stuff that happen less than 24h ago? I am trying my best not to call her in order to preserve the value but i dont know if she is even worth all this trouble.. for all i know she could be fucking the other dude and not even thinking about me. I am thinking too much i know, but she is like model type man.. :S I always have trouble when the girls are this hot, so i now will try to ignore her and see what happens either tomorrow or after. FUCK I HATE THIS FEELING!

Don't let the other dude affect YOU.

When she's with you, she's not with him - so it doesn't matter.

If she's made an issue of it - it's simple to tell her "I'm not a consolation prize. When you're ready to upgrade what you see in a man, you know where to find me. I might even be available, who knows?"... and leave.

But, I'd act as if he doesn't matter - because he doesn't. Freezing her out serves no purpose if you want to fuck her. Plan a date, escalate in a natural way and fuck her. Fuck her so there's absolutely NO doubt in her mind who the man is...then you can lay that tile and walk over it in Poland if you're ever in her country. If not, big deal? She'll remember that dude that fucked her senseless as she masturbates years from now. Win/win.

Game the shit out of her.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Thank you man.

Update: So i texted her and said in a cocky way that i might have some free hours tomorrow and arranged a date for the same place and at 19h. But she texted me back, saying she has plans tomorrow, and said friday might be better for her. Ok so wtf, she gave me a maybe on firiday? Ok, i guess the most i can get from her is a fuck but, tell me please, if a women kiss a guy, she has to be emotionally involved with him? The fact she is not taking the date tomorrow because of other plans tells me she is not 100% into me, but also the fact she marked it to friday confuses the hell out of me. This is not rejection is it? and less than 24h ago my tongue was in her throat, and then she just ignores me? Wtf? is it because she is young? Or is it because she is a model and have so many guys after her that her days are so busy she doesnt remember me?

Update2: i just texted her back with this: "Really? Aww too bad, guess u will have to w8 to enjoy my company again then friday it is then kiss*"

So now i guess i fucking will forget about her existence until its friday, i probably go hit on other bitches for a break on this crazy cow.. :S


I am trying my best not to acknowledge the other guys existence, since i know that if i worry about that i am dead just like RR told me, but its hard.

Dude, calm down!

It's just a woman, and it's just a kiss.

Seriously, slow your roll and look at it objectively.

She has plans tomorrow. If you don't believe her, you're wasting your time with a chick that lies to you, knowingly... That's on you.

If you do believe her - she has plans. The world doesn't revolve around you... just chill, man.

The fact she didn't flake, but rescheduled is not a killing blow. BUT - now you gain compliance. Wait til Thursday. Then gain compliance.

By the way... When you start by saying you might have time tomorrow, that alone offers an easy exit if your own plans aren't firmed up. It's a double-edged sword. I get it - you wanted to sound cocky, like you don't give a shit.... but that's not foolproof, nothing is.

From here, you need to gain compliance in order to not be waiting for a 'maybe' on Friday. If you don't gain total compliance - or a damned good explanation that you believe... I'd close the window.


RR

Oh, and yes, a woman doesn't have to be that in to you to kiss you. A kiss is truly easy to obtain...

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Thanks once again man!

The thing is, the time is limited, otherwise i could have worked better. Also the fact i know there is another dude, doesnt help. Yeah when she is with me she is not with him, but when she is not, i find it hard not to picture shit in my mind. I am about to inject on this chick, screw Friday date, if she cant w8 5 weeks without getting some dick i don't want to fuck her, mainly because of STDs.

Thanks for your help anyway RR.

So honorable... But - hard fact: You have NO idea the next woman you fuck won't have just had 5 dicks in her in a major gang bang.

You go off of instinct, you protect yourself and you sarge on - otherwise... you're truly on the wrong forum. This is for those wanting to become PUAs, not those seeking advice for the lovelorn.

Figure your priorities out and go from there man.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I have no emotions for women normally. but 10 gets to me because of how they look. i would post a picture but i need to know 100% i am done with her. She called me today, since i was ignoring her. Now i think i reverted the game, lets see if i can salvage this one for a fuck.