As the subject says,

HB8 and I have been out 3 times...STILL NO F CLOSE DAMMIT!

But today she texts me and asks if she can come over and cook for me. Obviously the answer was "sure!"

However, I'm not sure what to do while shes cooking. Shes volunteered to come to my house so I don't think I need to build comfort...and she doesnt really respond to negs.

Any ideas?

you are well past comfort and regular neg'ing. Have her cook for you while you make yourself comfortable, you dont need to entertain her at this point. Offer to mix your "house cocktails" after she makes dinner (for me its crystal light and cheap vodka). get her nice and relaxed and proceed to escalate to F-Close.

She is inviting herself to your house fora nighttime rendezvous, you should assume she intends to have sex with you, just facilitate it smoothly and dont noob it.

dude, do you want her to hand you the con**ms too...!!
she is suggesting the come-over... she is asking it.... how greener do yo want the light to be...
when she starts to cook or even before (when she just comes over)... start up the evening with little wine or something and once the mood is setup and you guys catch momentum... start cuddling her a bit... do kino kino kino... get some kino routines off the internet if you have to.. but kino is the key.. with kino started... go for the kiss and enjoiii

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kino escalated the whole night--went very smoothly. Got cut off at step 14 of the escalation ramp. "Too soon" for that she said.

Tried to freeze out...didn't work. No f close still.

Damn.

dude... not yet means yes as long as you are patient... you did not need to freeze her out..that was a mistake... because there is no need to get offended if she needs some more time...
just stay on her radar and she would come begging for it... many girls said that to me initially... but all i kept doing, which always worked is.... just keep doing your thing on her and keep saying -- yeah you are probably right.. we are taking this too fast... and back off... then on the opportune moment minutes later start again doing your thing on her kino etc and when she opposes, say yeah you are probably right.. we are taking this too fast ... REPEAT.... lol

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