heres the thing. i struggle with breaking the ice. but funny enough when i actually do decide to break the ice it always turns out well. and one thing tht bothers me is that whnever i get a gal. i never seem to hve sex with them. im 20years old ryt nw and from the seven girlfriends iv had iv only had sex with 2. the rest of the chicks are have sex with r chicks i meet at clubs and house parties, bt hardly my own girlfriends.

Ok, so my advice not be the best for this and might seem a bit needy, it's a start though and other people can probably fix/build on it or offer better advice.

So here it is I'd say go HOT and COLD, when you get a chance try to escalate to to sex if they stop it happening take it in your stride but then go cold on them for a few days, i.e not being very responsive to text or plans to do something.

Then go out with them again and escalate but not to the point of sex unless they are they take it there themselves. If they do problem solved, if they didn't not to worry the next time you spend time with them try to escalate to sex again if rejected go completely cold by this point they should have taken the hint and would probably ask you why you are being cold or some variation on that.

(this is the part that may seem needy or require changing)

Tell them that you are a very sexual person and you feel they do not care/like you enough because of the lack of sex and it's only natural for you to want to sleep with someone that you like/care about.

Hope at least some of this was usefull.

Hey

The problem is getting some sexual communication with the girls. Girls want sex more than men, it is just social programming that has made girls wait or not put out. What you need to do is to get their wild side out. There are manny ways of doing this, but i don't have time posting them now.

What LBot said is right, you are a man and will never make apologies for your desires as a man. Sex is natural. It sound a bit needy though. But the best way to have sex with them is having them so horny they go for it. You can do this by looking at them and imagining you having sex with them. This will change your tone of voice, body language etc... you need to really desire having sex with them and persist for the sex. Frame it as sex is pleasure and only natural.

hope it helps