recent discovery: in my 20's i did pretty well with women, although not from any particular sarging acumen. i lived the frat boy life for some time (a lot of time in bars including a few gigs as bartender) and managed to have sex with well over 50 women by the time i was 30. now 41 and i havent had sex for almost 2 years. this would take a long bit of biographical digressions to fully explain but i now know my biggest problem is my (i hope i am using functional jargon) "low status". i dont like my job, my pay (60k), my lousy apartment, or the fact that i believe i should have made much more of my life by now.

2 nights ago in my first effort at being a skilled p.u.a. i believe i was off to a roaring start (a brazen introduction to 2 young women while wearing a peacocky outfit) and definitely held their attention for a few minutes, although the frumpy gal grew quite negative when i began locking in on her hot friend. but, when the subject of career/employment was raised by them i found myself floundering and things went south quickly as my smile evaporated. ugh. a definite hurdle

as i stated in my first post i believe i would make excellent wingman. i'm tall, handsome, and witty but definitely need of great polish. looking forward to meeting up with some like-minded souls and learning the tricks of the trade

You're bragging about how good you were, yet you lost your skill because of your job? Please be serious. Anyone with enough experience knows that job/money/apartment that's straight up made up bullshit for not knowing how to stimulate the emotions of a woman. Your problem is not your "low status" I don't know what you call life. Your problem is that you don't understand that what you say / what you do is not at all important, but what feelings / emotions women feel around you. That's all there is. Women are emotional creatures. You think your job/life is lame, so when you talk about your life with girls, you telegraph that your life SUCKS. So why would any hot woman would want to jump on an adventure with you inside your life? If even you and yourself thinks your life situation sucks..do you think a stranger will want to become a part of your life? Let me answer for you: No. There's an incongruence in how many girls you layed and your rookie way of seeing things regarding women..I would say that you need to stop the bragging about the past and how "good" you were. If at this present moment, you think a roaring start was being introduced to a 2 set... you still have a longggg way to go. So go work on yourself

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Didn't think I was bragging but a fair response. Wasn't suggesting job was problem, was curious if others had the same internal problem manifesting in low confidence