I really want to change my mindset, and the whole purpose of pick-up for me is to be myself around others 100 percent of the time without holding back. With that being said, I still can't find the motivation to go out during the day and have to wait 10 minutes just to see 1 cute girl in the bookstore or street. I think about how I will be when I do commit to pick-up, but I never take action. I'm very far from any night clubs, so day game is really my only option. My question is what made you decide that your going to commit to pick-up? and do you have any advice for a young AFC like me in my situation, thanks in advance.

I'll keep it simple...

"All people die, but not all people live"

To which category do you want to belong?

I'm having the same motivation problem. I listen to Heartbreaker - Taoi Cruz to keep me motivated to do pickup.

I'm getting back into pick up after a long hiatus and I overcame the same issue. I Simple, picking up should be secondary. Find hobbies or interests where there might be girls around. Rollerblading, photography, dance classes, whatever.

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"Success is more important than being right." We all have a little nerdiness in us. The trick is to find it.

I'm getting back into pick up after a long hiatus and I overcame the same issue. I Simple, picking up should be secondary. Find hobbies or interests where there might be girls around. Rollerblading, photography, dance classes, whatever.

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"Success is more important than being right." We all have a little nerdiness in us. The trick is to find it.

I'm getting back into pick up after a long hiatus and I overcame the same issue. I Simple, picking up should be secondary. Find hobbies or interests where there might be girls around. Rollerblading, photography, dance classes, whatever.

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"Success is more important than being right." We all have a little nerdiness in us. The trick is to find it.

What if there are no hobbies you like to do where there are a lot of girls? I like mma and skateboarding but there are few girls who do that, but are you saying that I should do stuff that I enjoy so that I won't be to lazy to go out and meet women anymore?

Well then, how about meeting guys that have social circle while practicing your hobbies... And in any case, how much time can you spend skate-boarding and watching MMA matches anyway... Do something else as well...

That's just it though, I don't live in the city and i'm 24 miles away from the nearest stores and towns. There's nothing else I can do except for hit on girls when I do go to town, but I always end up not doing it. Whenn you have no songs or anything to pump you up, where do you find the motivation to go out?

Man, you have that in you! You don't need any externl source of motivation other than your drive and determination to go out and meet the women you like and live the life that you deserve! Do that now... it's Friday, and you need to go out and have fun!!! Let me know how your evening went...

That's exactly all I need is drive and determination. I went out friday to pasedena and almost got with a model. In reality I didn't even use any kino or even try to make a move lol, that's the main reason why I need to practice though because I know if I wasn't scared of rejection i could've easily got with her. It sucks but I think if i go out everday for 30 minutes then that'll at least be a start. Thanks again for the advice man, i appreciate it.

my love for the opposite sex is what motivates me. I'm tired of wanting to talk to girls and being to chicken to make the first move. Only god knows how many girls I've fancied but done nothing about it. The ability to be with almost any girl I fancy is a motivation for me.
the day i will completely lose motivation is when I stop liking women, and we all know that's never gonna happen.