Hey guys how's it goin. Figured I jump on here and introduce myself, seeing as I plan to spend quite a bit of time here.

21 year old student studying pre-med. Have a bunch of hobbies including sports, working out, and staying active as a whole. I constantly find myself focusing on self-improvement, which is one of the reasons I stumbled across this website.

I have never been absolutely terrible with women, but I definitely feel like I have A LOT of room to improve. I'm a decent looking guy who spends a lot of time focusing on staying in shape and taking care of myself. I go out on a regular basis with my buddies and have a great time, but I hate that I can't land women. I'll look across the bar and make eye contact with some gorgeous girl who will shoot my a smile/wave, but I immediately pussy out. Most frustrating thing in the world!

I feel like a lot of my problems stem from a fear of rejection. As I stated before I spend a lot of time on myself, and when I fail (regardless of what it may be at) I beat the shit out of myself. I'm hoping to over come that fear and develop into someone who (at the very least) isn't intimidated by women and who can approach someone without shitting my pants.

I'm not completely ignorant to the community, and have a general understanding of the terms and jargon. I hope that with your guys help, I can transform myself into someone with some confidence and game.

With all that being said, I look forward to talking to you guys and wish you all the best of luck!

- HardPressed

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Hey man, AA (approach anxiety) is a big issue, the majority of new people have it, and from what I can gather it never fully goes away, try the newbie mission it helps. Other than that good luck man hope it works out for you

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Welcome aboard!

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