Hey guys, my GF and I have been dating for almost 3 weeks now, she`s a virgin and she hasn`t done anything exclusive with other guys... IDK why, she`s gorgeous and polish
I know its early at week 3 but I want to start laying the foundation early..
I`m already at the dominant position and I`m usually the one who makes the decision on dates and etc.

My goal is to make her feel comfortable about giving me blowjobs and sex in general. She says she never given a guy a BJ... I know I should start doing operant conditioning on her like rewarding vs. taking away attention from her. But I`m not 100% how to reward her or punish her or even to initiate this move...

At month 6, I want us to be banging! LOL

How old is she?

the conditioning is not as important to help you so much towards passing the lmr to get to sex as it will towards her looking up to you and giving you attention, she's a virgin so she can like you all she wants, chances are she will still be anxious about this no matter how effectively you use operant/classical conditioning

you would probably be better off focusing on framing sex as no big deal, as well as doing a list of several other things to lower asd (look up asd if you don't know what those things are), it also might be fairly productive for you to simply not try to ''get sex'' but rather just start giving her makeouts without asking, and going down her pants without asking, and if she seems uncomfortable with it or your are getting heavy resistance, don't pressure her, instead just back off and try again after some time, as for the blow jobs, just qualify her to the idea that blowjobs are amazing etc. just talk them up and how amazing they make a guy feel, but flip the frame and start asking her what turns her on etc., don't make it all about you, try to make it as much about her as possible (with a little about how amazing blowjobs are as well as other things that turn you on, don't be afraid to paint her a picture of how good they make you feel and how someone has to be ''special'' for you to let them do that), and remember if you can give it good, you will more likely get it good

just persist and don't make a big deal out of it

To make her convertable she has to go through uncomfortable then get used to it. The sooner you start to do the things that makes it hard for her to be comfortable the sooner it will be comfortable.

This can be looked at from the wrong perspective but what I'm trying to say is, everything is uncomfortable to start off with.