I need help in this area...
I always get caught off guard when a chic throws
A backhanded comment...not all girls do it to me
Just the really stuck up ones...maybe thats
Why I get caught off guard and don't know
What to say after... Now I just ignore them but I need to overcome these test not put them aside...
With what mindset do I face these test and what do you guys
Usually do?

Do you have any examples of these shit tests?

Soncheese x

You smile and say that's cute, then continue

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This girl is more of a guy in that
Aspect
She says things that douchbags would say
Almost like bullying tactics
She once called
Me a pussy out loud because I left her
Mid conversation because I went to buy wine
For me and the girl I was seeing(her sister)

if she calls you a pussy

just say (laughing) "if im a pussy your my dick"

The main thing is not to be affected by her snapbacks and comments even if she says it seriously

instead laugh and smile to show whatever she says means jackshit to you

and think of funny disarming comebacks that doesnt directly insult her in a jokingly way but it makes her feel stupid for saying that

Thats result.

Soncheese x

Yeah she calls me a pussy for not closing the conversation...but at the
Same I did it in purpose to bug her...because I
Like to bust balls too...
Also
Here are some
More details on her
She's 27 and still hangs around with her high school friends
Why is that important?
When I first got
To know her she invited me to
Come to get together at her friends
Hous...everybody there were partying ,getting
Drunk but guess what through out the whole
Party only 3 ppl would talk to
Me
(my girl. The owner of the house, my girls sister)
Everyone else would just brush me off if I tried to talk to them
Or look
At me funny like "whose this guy?"
In others their a "tight knit" group of ppl
That been together since high school
Perhaps these ppl were the so
Called "cool crowd" back then so
That's why they are like that...

This girl likes to control conversations
And if we're to talk about something
She would take that and try to turn into her own creation
Understand ?
She also tries to
Shock you she takes sexual innuendos pretty far for a
Chic even with me but I tend
To ignore that...
And she's the type that always likes to get the last word...

Thank a lot guys

Whenever a chick throws me a shit test, I reframe it inside my head as "She does that, therefore she's interested in me" which only enhances my confidence... More shit tests, more confidence... As to girls that talk shit (like graphic sexual comments) jut to shock you, they do it for attention, and as long as you seem not embarrased by their comments, they will stop... At a b-day party this chick asked me why do men like it when women give them deep-throats... To which I replied "Cause they have no chance but to swallow"... Completely destroyed her frame (older chick trying to get me to act all AFC and embarrased)...

Thanks
Guys
No wonder my buddy gets responses from
Girls that are like that because
Talking about graphical sexual stuff and making those
Jokes are normal to
Him...

You can get some training about making outrageous remarks... See one of my older posts on this topic... After you make those remarks you will never be embarrased again in your life

And BTW I'm new in this forum
So
I don't know what AFC or any of that stuff ....
Where can I get a glossary without paying for private membership?

Get yourself a copy of Neil Strauss' "The Game"... there's a glossary at the end... and the book itself is worth reading...

there are other materials too like venusian arts handbook, etc. keep learning!

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