I believe that having sex the first night leads to disappointment. Last time I do it (well.. lets see )but that is my aim, here I explain why:

I am lucky that I slept with all the girls I found special, and on the first night! but since I find them special I am in the role of Romeo, and the ladies instead of behave like Juliet they get naked as soon as we get into the apartment and jump on me... I have lots of stories, and believe me... its a turn off, because that is not what you were expecting. Its like a sudden change of personality that really shocks me.

Things should be gradual, and go increasing at constant rate. Also by getting naked so soon, there is no teasing, no foreplay which is an important step to get to know what each other likes.

I asked my friends and girls don't usually do that to them... they take more time and foreplay.. not sure why this happens to me, but bringing a girl you could fall in love with home and see her behaving like a slut... shocking.

Am I the only one that feels this way?
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If those are the only problems you have in life, then life shouldn't be so bad!

Yeah, I was thinking about that the other day... shame on me!

I guess its a matter of expectations, just sharing, some people will laugh some other maybe will be on the same boat.. but lets share anyway! I post also all the silly things I say to ladies in case it works for others.

I can say from experience that sometimes the girl loses a number on the "HB" scale when you see her a few days after you laid her on a first night.

Funny how new pussy clouds proper judgement LOL.

Absolutely!! And probably the same happens to girls, so another reason why to delay sex with a girl you find interesting...

I don't see myself ever having that kind of restraint LMFAO — I'll get it in there as soon as the opportunity shows itself to do so.

But then again, I wouldn't have one of my kids right now if I had shown such restraint!

For me it is actually the opposite. I tend to see a girl more attractive once I have banged her. Whether first night or not.
Probably a psychological reaction along the lines of "oh fuck I banged this chick. was she good enough for my standard? yeah she was"

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