Hey guys

So there's this girl who's in my class (we only have one class together, twice a week, so I don't see her that much), and in the last couple of weeks I've kinda gotten a crush on her. But I don't know her at all.. I've never even spoken to her. And now the school year is over, and I'm graduating, which means I probably won't see her again.

So, I've found her on Facebook, but now I don't know how to get in touch with her. Should I poke her, add her, message her or what? What if she doesn't like me back, or thinks I'm some creepy stalker, since we don't know each other? And I still have exams left, so there's a small chance that I might run into her a few times in school in the next couple of weeks..

I hate this! Any help is much appreciated!

I hate to say this but almost anything you do with messaging her on Facebook, when she learns you saw her around, and now you're talking to her online is going to sound needy, creepy, and stalkerish. It's going to be hard to spin it away from that. I say you missed your opportunity in person and move on.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

just message her .

HEY WTF!! You go to XXX also? It's a small world, see you in class.


Just dont be needy]
Fuck it! just admit you've seen her around campus
She will have no choice but to think about you. I'm sure scenarios will go through her mind about seeing you in school, even if it's bad ones. At least you gave it a shot. Worst thing she can say is EWWW, but taking a chance is better than not taking one. Chances are free, take them. Then I would move on.

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If you have the opportunity to meet her IRL, go and talk to her!!! Online is a tool that is to be used to eventually meet girls IRL! If you can skip the online part and go straight to the IRL meeting then do it! If you approach and fail you have lost nothing, you are still in the same spot you were in before you tried!

You are a MAN, she wants a MAN to take her! Be that Man!

Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Has anyone got a good answer? :p

Are you fucking her right now? If the answer is "NO" then what do you have to
lose?

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Meet her in person. I personally am not a fan of the messaging before meeting. In fact, for my ex (she had to move out of country so we chose to split) I didn't give any contact info till after about 2 weeks of meeting her IRL. Made us savor the moments we met, and kept us hoping to meet each other everyday on campus.

Thanks for the answers everyone, but they're not quite what I'm looking for... is there anyone who can help me out? This is killing me..

Listen, you've got a few choices as you said.

Sending a message - You can tell her you've seen her around at school. Ask her what's going on or how she's doing. Make it relatively short as if it's something you would ask anyone you've just seen around. I think this is likely to get you an answer at least and after that you can then send a friend invite without seeming like a creep. If you're lucky a good conversation may also come out of it. Or it may not (not a big deal!).

Poking - Could work. She could ignore it, poke you back or send you a message. Easy thing to do but if she doesnt poke you back sending a message to her will just be seen as you being needy imo.

Simply adding her as a friend - If you think she will remember your face this might work. If not i think the other options are better.


THINKING TOO MUCH ABOUT THIS IS JUST SILLY. So dont. But you asked for tips and here you are, now make your move.