I think I did, but I want some other input to see if I should continue to persue. I'll tell the whole story, leaving nothing out, and I want you people to be blunt with me.

So, HB8 in my history class. This is my only class with non-engineering (so good looking) girls, even though there are only a few. I've sat next to this girl since about the second week in, we meet every Tues and Thurs mornings for 1.5 hours. It is a lecture class, so the only time to verbally speak during class is before or after. I sit to the left of her on the right side of the class, so the teacher is to my left speaking while she is to my right. Alright, so first few weeks the only thing I ask her about is the extra credit dates. About a week after, sensing her looking at me, I play a little game of hangman with her during a movie. She complies, but we don't have time to finish the game. About a week later, she adds me to her friends Facebook, she didn't have her own. Ever since then, my shyness has gotten the best of me and I never talk to her. So a week ago I stumble across her own Facebook that she had started at the end of November. I add her, along with a bunch of other people. She accepts. I send her a message, here is how the convo has gone:
To me, it seems as though she isn't interested anymore. I mean, I may have had her interested back in the day, but I think I've lost her. I want some other opinions on this, and like I said, don't sugar coat it. I hope to force myself to at least talk to her this week, since it is the last week of classes. But I feel my chances are much more slim than what they once were. Any other input?

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Aight, so maybe she is still a little interested... Today, she came in class and asked me if the essay was due today (it is due Thurs). I, of course, said yes with a straight face, and asked if she did it. She asked if I was serious, I said no and started laughing, and then she said something non-important. I then pointed out that there was only one essay up there and asked if she thought the whole class didn't do it, and she said she was just making sure. I think she turned a little red at this point.

So later on today I got this brilliant idea for "using my resources" on the essay. So here is how the Facebook convo went (I know I need to move away from this form of messaging, but its all I have to work with right now).
I'm thinking I'll neg her asking who works 3 hours, and then tell her to call me when she gets them done. And then maybe add welcome to college (its her first semester) at the end.

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You can easily still close with a date but the first thing you need to do is cease this facebook communication. First off, don't send messages on Facebook more than a couple of sentences it looks desperate, organized, and weak. The typical max replies you want to do on facebook is two during one conversation. You need to move phases and finish discussing the project over the phone. Its okay to do this reply stuff via text messages since you have your own you, but returning to fbook to check when shes messaged looks weak. Your next shot at her needs to be way out of the classroom, you need to establish a primary connection you guys can talk about that has nothing to do with class otherwise she'll associate you w/ schoolwork and boredom. Just brainstorm an upcoming event you have in common or share interest in so you establish a meeting outside the class. No matter what the worst thing you can do at this point is to not be engaging conversation in class and then be sending intermittent facebook posts.

dude, you're over analyzing this crap.. she's interested and you should've grew some balls awhile ago on this. When she asked you about the essay i guarantee she knew it wasn't due that day but was just starting a convo with you. Girls pride themselves in being sly about their wiles and hate being called out on them which you did in a sense.

Quit being shy, grow some balls, and start talking to her in class. Do you even have her number yet? seriously dude, you can even go up to her before or after class, ask when she's free this week/weekend and tell her since she's your favorite person to never talk to you're going to take her to a silent movie. keep it up unless she gives you a weird look and then take her for something else because "a silent movie is quite counterproductive"... i'm not sure how C&F you are but this is one you can pull off

so bluntly, grow some balls

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Thats a good way to think of it. I like that.

Well I was forced to give her my number, which I guess is ok because it was essential to get the essay done. So I got her number when she called, which isn't the best way but whatever works. I'm not going to worry about it anymore, for two reasons. She isn't as hot as I originally thought, but still really cute. And her relationship status on Facebook is "It's complicated" with some kid. I'll still see if she wants to get lunch tomorrow after class, see whats up.

Now back to this essay, man I'm good at procrastinating.

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Sounds like your digging a bit for a conversation. If I were in this situation I would've gone into a story about waking up early that transitioned to a dhv. Possibly something about a girl waking me up for class or something instead of transitioning to building comfort. It sounds like your skipped to fast into comfort and if you do that you will find yourself in the friends zone. PM me for advice because that's why you lost her interest. I'll tell you how to handle this same situation via PM.

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Haha, well it seems her ex or whatever the hell they are feels threatened by me. He sent me a message on Facebook saying that she is his girl, and if he hears anything more about me contacting her is he is going to make sure it ends. He also said he is only going to talk to me once about it. Funny shit, I love it. Time to move on, but I want to send a message back to get him heated. What should it say? I really want to say something about him feeling threatened by me...

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tell him she's helping you study man.. and that your friendship is.. welll.. umm.... complicated.. just like their facebook relationship is.. then add a really gay smiley face

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Hey man, i'm an engineering student too--and i know how it goes with ugly ass engineering women and all. If I were you (and I basically am in your same position) I wouldn't look at your classes as a primary source of girls. Even if you had game like Style or Mystery, you will never for sure get the girl you want. Inasmuch as (in an engineering program) you only cross a HB7+ 2x or so a year, the odds are basically against you. You've got far better odds hanging around campus randomly approaching girls.