While I am working with guys, a lot of times I notice some of them who
have the biggest challanges with meeting hot women have something in common..
And I believe this directly connects with money and women.
The thing that they ALL have in common, is their attitude towards money.
You see, as I came to realize, that women like abbundance. They hate
stinginess.
Guys also like abbundance, but some of them are really stingy.
This has nothing to do with how much money you actually have - but it has to
do with how you behave towards money. What is your attitude towards money.
Stingy or cheap people ussually are stingy because they feel there isn't enough of
money to go around.
They feel money is something scarce, something that is running away - something
they can't get.
And they have the SAME ATTITUDE towards women.
They feel woman are scarce, that they can't have them, that they're running away
and that they don't deserve them.
What's in common in both examples, with women and with money is how guys
view themselves.
You see, in both cases they see themselves as NOT ATTRACTIVE.
Not attractive to money, and not attractive to women.
I know a lot of guys who are good with women...
It's not that they have a lot of money, but their attitude towards money is just
different.
More free. More liberating. More free flowing.
They have this attitude: "There's plenty more where this came from"
What's interesting with these guys is, that they never seem to lack money.
After studying it, I came to understand the difference with these guys and guys
who see women and money as scarce.
And here's the difference:
WORLDS.
That's right.
Guys who have this "there is plenty of money everywhere" and "there are plenty of women everywhere"
mentality, are different from the rest in their view on the world.
I'm going to use WORLD 1 as a description of the guy who has this mentality of "There's not enough"
And I'm going to use WORLD 2 to describe guys who have the mentality of "There's plenty of everything"
WORLD 1
There isn't enough. I don't have. Money doesn't want me. Hot women don't want
me. I have to chase. I am needy. I have to get and than hold on to it.
I can't get more. It's scarce.
WORLD 2
There is plenty. I have. Money wants me. Money is chasing me. Hot women want
me. Hot women are chasing me. It's something everyday that women
want me. I am use to it. This is just a part of my everyday life.
Can you see the difference in beliefs?
WORLD 2 guys don't live in fear. They don't fear rejection, humiliation, they don't
fear confrontation, they put their balls up there, laugh and have fun with their
friends - just like Tom Cruise in Top Gun when he sings for that girl.
WORLD 1 guys live in constant fear and anxiety. They fear rejection, humiliation,
they fear confrontation, they are scared of putting their balls forward and do
something that is considered on the edge. They don't have fun. They are
kind of stuck up, stiff and in their head.
And it all connects with this scarcity thinking - like they are going to lose
something.
If you recognize yourself as a WORLD 1 guy (as I did for many years) than
do something about it.
I think the best thing you can do for starters, is do something about your
anxiety - and than move on to shifting how you feel and think about women
and world in general - is it really this scarce place where there isn't enough
of everything - or is the world a place where there is plenty of everything
and you can share? You can share love, emotions, laughter, money, resources,
women, everything.
If you want to eliminate your anxiety, I have a new technique called the Mysterious Mind Reader and it's designed so it eliminates your anxiety in 57 min flat. I want
to test it on 30 diferent guys, for free, before I put it out there.
To apply for your spot, go here
www.volcanoconfidence.com
Talk to you soon,
Fantom
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