Every time I decide to do something in a dominant way (i.e. we going to ___, or we goiing to make out now) - even if I just assume dominance by not waiting for an answer, she always says no and then smiles like its some kind of joke, and i can tell she really doesnt have a reason to say 'no' other than the fact that im the one suggesting it.

How do I go about this? How do I regain control?

P.S. not to mention her flaking on me and $hit

dude she sounds like the girl I was messing with 2 months ago and I "HAD" to leave her like forealsss....lol she was weird, a freak, a bit crazy, I mean acually she was crazy! lol.. but she was very very good looking. And Thats where I fucked up at. These girls are very immature im telling you. Not to be harsh but you should leave this girl as soon as possible. She will always continue to do that in most times and eventually you'll get tired of it and get bored. Its her doing the wierd shit. And theres nothing wrong with you. She'll start making you think that after a while. Then soon you'll start feeling weird and shit, acting like a whole another person lol I had an bad experience and it went far way worst then this. Im telling you lol

Hahahahah broooooooo freaks and relationships

It sucks i gotta run now but i will give you some good information when i get back! Dated a freak for 3 months and literally got emotionally raped and after that learned and read so much about freaks! I will share my thoughts and it will be a great read for you!

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lol I gotta hear your stuff dude ive been in the same position and I sure fucking did get emotionally fucked in the ass! And what a "quiencident" if I spelled that right. I was dating her also for three months and mannnnnn lorrrd I learned alot from freaks.. There are no good to date or take serious. lol but yea gotta hear your stuff I can tell I already related to what you got in lol

Ok so here it goes, i will probably forget a lot but still some good info:

A freak is usually the girl that discovered sex at an early age, some drama in her past, many ex boyfriends, very low self esteem as she needs validation 24/7 and craves the attention from a lot of guys! Freaks love sex and are usually pretty good looking and very often low lifes who never heard the word respect.

Freaks are the ones that will fuck you up and tear your heart out, piss on it and beat it some more then dump you and leave you standing with no self-respect, dignity and a feeling off what did I do wrong?

Like i said a freak craves attention from anyone! The more the better, she needs this because they have low self esteem and need constant validation. They get this by chatting with 50 guys or having 400 guy friends on face-book who post compliments on how good she looks. Freaks are also the ones who will cheat on you the easiest. Sex is ultimate validation that a freak can get so they love it and when opportunity strikes she grabs it!

The sex and looks off the freak get the guys hooked to her! The abuse and disrespect becomes tolerated for that magical pussy of hers. You are afraid of losing it so you will become AFC to the fullest degree. Here is where things really go wrong!

Freaks need drama in their life and this is why she will throw in as much shit tests as she can, make you jealous, get mad for the dumbest shit until you break and give her that drama she needs!

How freaks operate in my experience:

They act like a good girl for a month or so... its a mask. In my case she always texted me a lot saying cutie, mister perfect and acting really nice. Great sex and a feeling of this is going to work perfectly! Then after a month or so they take off that mask and become the person they have always been.

The nicer you are to her the worser she will treat you! They will flake on you a lot, decrease texting, giving you pure disrespect... etc.

Why do they do this? Simple! They get bored with you and broke all your boundaries, challenge is gone and they sucked all your dignity, respect and maybe even money out of you. They trow you away like a piece of shit and get there-selves a new victim to win over and abuse.

Freaks are not made for long term relationships! When its time to settle down you can be with them until then do not attach yourself to a freak!!!!! Use them like they use you.

To be with a freak for longer then a couple of months you need to be a true badboy with perfect game! You need to disrespect them, give them drama, be really dominant in bed, very creative when seeing her, never take any shit from her and almost never be available. Play those emotions like you get played by with a freak!

Screen the girl you are dating and if its a freak go for fuck buddies/ friends with benefits only as a relationship will get you mad shit! You have no idea until you had experience with one.

If anyone else has some experience with freaks please share it, i love to read it!

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DUDE! all this what u said is VERY VERY FUCKING TRUE! this bitch has riped my heart out like no other, my essem went REALLY FUCKED UP and i was left very confused like a motha fucker! and yes she did leave with me thinking what went wrong.. she had super emotional issues but thought she could change but nope its just the way she is. A fucking FREAK. but yeah ive notice when i fucked her real good and disrespected her ive gotten a lot of power which i always do to freaks but this one was powerful and she got me i aint gonna lie... I went AFC like a bitch lol and till to this day im kinda still affected by it, so many lessons been tought man. I thought i was the only guy who went threw this bullshit but thanks man you post this big.. or make a article about it or something lol these girls are dangerous especially if u aint a badboy.. they will crush you like aluminum foil lol and throw in the trash and have you begging her back wanting more and she'll be ever MORE LESS Attracted to you... these girls change people if you cant play the game right! BEWARE lol

GOOD FUCKING POST DUDE!!

MUCH RESPECT!!!!!

That really helps!!

but what if she isnt a freak? (like maybe shes just looking for a dominant man since she has too many experiences with wimpy guys so she keeps shit-testing)
would i ruin my chances by treating her like one?[/quote]

Well your first job is to identify if she really is a freak, hoe or good girl. Treat hoes and freaks like said above and treat a good girl with your heart but always be ALPHA.

How to identify a freak:

- Many exes.
- Drama in past ( touchy uncle, bad boyfriends etc )
- Often have some issues like depression or crazy mood swings.
- Easy to get.
- LOVE sex and discovered it very soon.
- Treat you poorly and does not feel bad about it, never apologies. Very selfish.
- Often unable to receive or give oral.
- Very low self esteem and need someone to validate them at all times. CRAVE attention from anyone! If you don't give it they find it elsewhere.
- Creates mad drama over nothing.
- Short relationships ( average 1-5 months )
- Not that many friends ( usually hangs out with low lifes ).


Hope this helps!

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