hi

i was wondering why is it that only HB6-8s ever hit on me. i mean openly hit on me. i think i am a fairly attractive guy, i work out, i am tall.

every once in a while a girl smiles at me on the street, randomly pokes me on facebook, tries to pick me up in a club or hits on me in the supermarket. but these are only HB 6, 7 and 8s (usually 6s and 7s, rarely 8s). where are the 9s for instance? does that mean that i am an 8?

just wondering... have you guys ever thought of that?

It's usually 6s and 7s because they have to. They probably dont get approached by as many guys. The higher up you go and those girls get approached all the time. Why would they do the hard part when they don't have to?

How do you look? I recently lost a whole bunch of weight. I am back to having 9-10s checking me out. This didn't happen after I put on 60-70lbs, but it did before that. Women are visual too, not as much as men, but they do judge your looks. Are you fit? Are you standing confident and strong? Etc.

yeah, i think i look good. you can totally see that i work out, i am tall and weight 205 lbs. okey, i would just have to get a bit more ripped, because the is some fat on my belly. i just don't wanna lose muscle mass as well...

sooo, it is possible to get looks from 9s and 10s if you look better it seems...

Its not just how athletic you are. It is how you dress, style your hair and how you carry yourself, etc. I wouldn't worry too much about having a six pack, as reasonably athletic should be good enough to get noticed (don't have a pot belly and a fat face).

Not a bad idea to pick up a magazine like Maxim and study dress style, etc. Although, if you are skilled in the arts you could dress in old sweats and a t-shirt and game without taking a shower. That said, dressing well with some style will help and will certainly raise your self-confidence. Just be sure you dress to the style you are looking to appeal to.