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| socio | PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2012 12:38 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Sep 07, 2011 9:06 pm Posts: 69 Location: London and Bournemouth | | Hey guys just wanting some advice on how i should interpret this message.
First of all i want you to know she broke up with me but it ended on good terms i accepted it but told her there was no chance of us being friends.
She text me like 4 days ago after breaking up with me 3 week ago...
saying first:" Hey freedom writers is on e4!!!! Hope your all good." ( freedom writers is one of my favourtie films)
I text back today because at the time i had no idea who the text was from as i had deleted her number saying
" hey sorry who is this, I lost some numbers!"
She text back: " No you obviousley deteted my number! It's harriet.... hahah"
I text back " Hey ye i did.... im good tho thankyou, and then asked if shes A or B cast in the show.
She responded B hope you all good and that was it!!
I just find it strange and wondered what you guys thought? _________________ Aristotle: We are what we repeatedly do. Therefore excellence is not an act but a habbit
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| Winchester | PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2012 12:52 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Wed Jun 03, 2009 12:10 am Posts: 210 Location: Ney York | | I'm fresh out of a break up, that I relapsed into and it wasn't a good idea.
I feel better by just taking control of the situation and choosing too ignore her and move on with my life, although I'm still not over her, it's helping to just keep busy and see other people.
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| Furiox | PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2012 1:23 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Tue Apr 10, 2012 11:30 pm Posts: 327 Location: Netherlands | | yea bro, that was a bad move unless you want to do her a favor. She only contact you out of curiosity. If you would off ignored it she would kept wondering what you are up to and why you are not answering her texts. This will really work in your favor but now you killed the curiosity.
For me its easy to ignore cause i hate my ex but i can understand if you really ended things with her properly and for good reasons its cool to respond and not be a bitch. _________________ Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.
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| socio | PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2012 2:10 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Sep 07, 2011 9:06 pm Posts: 69 Location: London and Bournemouth | | ah ye well i didn't even know it was her at first.... but i probably would have text back anyway, she did nothing wrong im not gonna be a dick about it.
But ye why is she curious were DONE!!! I don't get it...... _________________ Aristotle: We are what we repeatedly do. Therefore excellence is not an act but a habbit
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| Snake Doctor | PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2012 3:07 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:57 pm Posts: 797 Location: Portugal | | Really easy to understand.
You probably didnt contact her since you guys are over
She is looking for validation... probably things is not going as she planned on her love life.
Her curiosity... is to see if you still like her if you still cry on bed every night missing her... once again so she can feel queen of the world, and feel she has the power.
If you have girlfriend if she is hotter or not than her.
Trust me exs tend to do this kinda of shit.
Is there way of feeling important in this tiny little world. _________________ Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!
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| socio | PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2012 4:03 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Sep 07, 2011 9:06 pm Posts: 69 Location: London and Bournemouth | | haha ok thanks! _________________ Aristotle: We are what we repeatedly do. Therefore excellence is not an act but a habbit
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