Ok, so im in high school and ive known this girl for a while, she is shy sometimes but her friends have all told me she thinks im relle hot n shit and she kinda flirts with me every time i see her, anyways ive kinda been in a long term relationship but its starting to get rocky and i havnt been with my gf at all lately, so the other night i was at my buddies house and i called this girl to see what she was doin, she asked if she could come over n chill with us so she did then when she got there it was already late n she asked if she could sleep at my house n we could get a bottle ... so i said yea n wen we got here we just chilled n took some shots etc. then she goes i wanna go to bed so i said we should cuddle..( i was slammed by this point which im beginning to think gettin wasted ruins your game) so she goes ohh ur makin moves on me... n i responded no i think u just look like a good cuddler or some shit like that so she laid down on the couch n i got in there with her... she didnt tell me to get out but when i started to gently rub her back n kiss her neck she goes, U AINT GETTIN WITH ME n started to laugh a little then i just laughed n said oo relle n she goes ur still tied down with ur gf i go nooo im not n started doin what i was doin again and she didnt mind but when i tried to turn her over she didnt so i just got up n let her go to sleep then the nexy day i saw her n said u suck at cuddling n she said y would i cuddle with u?... I AM CONFUSED OUT OF MY MIND... i relle dont even want this chick its just pissin me off that shes doin that

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You got negged dude...your best bet would have been to hit her back with one of your own. Something joking like, "Because you need the practice..." would have gone over alright (though god knows I'm still trying to work my way through a lot of this stuff myself, so my negs probably aren't the best).

Then, depending on her response, you could DHV or try to control her frame of the situation. And be ready for a shit test...I dunno why, but it just seems like she would be on the verge of throwing one out.

Sounds like you want clarification about what happened. Okay here is one of the first things I noticed. Since you've "known this girl for a while" I assume you have some comfort built. You didn't continue doing any comfort building that you posted when you saw her again. By building comfort I mean she knows you're a good guy and going to be around for a while and don't just see her as a avenue for sex. I don't see anywhere where you started to kino esclate before you asked her to "cuddle." There isn't a naturally progression there and you made it uncomfortable for her by asking her that.

Then you decided to kino late, by rubbing her back and kissing her neck. She said, "You ain't getting with me..." She already knows from the previous "cuddle" statement that you intention with her is sex only. There wasn't a natural progression. You went back into it with her with seduction and not comfort with light kino moving to seduction. As I mentioned before you made it uncomfortable for her.

You have a girlfriend, whether you are with her or not she sees you as having a girlfriend. Notice this objection came later after you tried to make your moves, and she tried to shield you off. Then you said, "You suck at cuddling." She probably saw this as another attempt at seduction, and that's why she gave the "Why would I cuddle with you..."

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

She's messing with you kid. PM me for advice.

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sounds like last minute rejection or some shit like that...

But yeah i think ur kinda stuck in the damn friend zone or she is just using you for affection.

Either way, you should have pulled more routines and shit on her. You need to tease her sexually and all that shit... like when she said i wanna go to bed. You should have answered " i charge 100$ and hour, my time aint free u didnt know? " if she laughs add " btw the clock started when you stepped in the house "

And the fact that you brought up the cuddling thing made you look a lil an afc if u ask me. Dont ever ask just do it. Be natural and slick. Dont be like Neil strass in the bathtub, "with ur dick floating around waiting for sex" in your case metaphorically.

nothing to be confused about, just improve ur game next time. Besides you said "she thinks ur hot" so if she thinks ur hot she wants ur cock. And that is the bottom line. But if she pulls that teasing shit again and ur tired of her crap, well, hey dude call her a cab tell her to go home. ( I rather watch porn and materbate then deal with that crap if you ask me )

i agree with jsmooth, first thing i'll say is your disarming yourself by having a gf so get out of that situation if you want to game girls in your main social group, i think you just revealed your intentions to soon without building it up, she basically ended up doing what you should have been doing to you what you should have been doing to her earlier, negging and playing hard to get, i recommend checking out tyler durden's stuff about buying temperature and escalation i just finished reading it and improved my game alot