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I'm a college student, AFC for the most part but grown up a lot lately. I generally do pretty well in night clubs with women I don't know that well. Pulled countless numbers this year(though a lot of the time never get follow up meetings,) brought a chick home from the club and got head, not too long ago had an easy f-close opportunity from a chick I escalated with in the club but ultimately got too drunk and blacked out before I closed the deal.
Where I struggle is with girls I've formally met in places not as superficial as the club and in situations where I'm not necessarily looking for a one-nighter. One particular HB8 that I met through another female friend of mine a while ago gave me her number earlier in the school year when we stumbled across each other and found we lived in the same apartment complex. We've talked about hanging out a few times but never made it happen.
Had limited interaction lately because the pattern would be I'd invite her somewhere, it wouldn't fall through so I'd forget about her and not hit her up for a while. If I happened to stumble across her again we'd say we need to chill, I'd shoot a text, we just never made it happen. Summer now so our schedules are a bit lighter and I'd like to give it another shot. Just don't know how to go about it since we really haven't had any real interaction in the past couple months short of her liking a few of my Facebook statuses. Trying to figure out how to open back up with a text and what an appropriate setting to invite her to would be.
I would intentionally call her to just talk to "catch up" then invite her out to someplace like coffee away from your apartment buildings so things aren't awkward. If you call and "catch up" first some asking about her and talking to her then her emotional investment will go up, her also learning about you makes her more comfortable and easier for her to agree to the date.
Best of luck sir
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