There is a fine line. I've discovered that I am excellent at creating comfort with my targets. I am a fun guy who they feel safe with and they all comment how I can't find a girlfriend because I'm so into myself there's no room for anyone else jokingly. However they all will kino me constantly and yearn to hear the stories I have to tell wanting me around or to go out with them. My problem is how can I prevent myself from being LJBF'd and still build attraction. It has been coming and going with various girls and goes in my favor when they hear I'm talking to a new girl. Yet when I am just sleeping around it goes in the friend direction. Any advice to balance better in my favor?

So are you sleeping with enough woman or do you find yourself int he friendzone too often, you seem to be saying both.

I'm about to copy and paste my last three posts regarding the "comfort danger." I'm gonna have to make this an epic multi-page post one of these days if this issue keeps coming up daily.

I don't get friend zoned by girls im gaming in clubs or bars at all. These are girls I work with that I'm casualy gaming and many of them have boyfriends or girlfriends. I don't push as hard or smooth as I normally do because I don't want to get fired lol. I more put light images in there mind to create an association with me on whatever we happen to be talking about at that moment.

And the epic post page would be amazing.

well it doesn't seem applicable in your case but I may have to do it anyway along with an Epic "knock off the non-stop texting bullshit, it isn't working" post as well.

In any case you are probably just fine telling these girls about how many beautiful woman you are dating and how much fun you are all having together: high social value lifestyle/jealousy plot-line. Sounds like you are kind of doing that anyway

Yeah somewhat. Just seems to be very fickle on their part, which I've come to expect in any case. However I get the feeling that they back off because they don't want to become part of a 'list' so to speak. Idk, I kinda want them to all feel individually special, but most of what I do requires an audiencce. Should I maybe pull back on what I'm doing a little bit?

no, because if you do that it would create false expectations and may be stressful if you end up fucking them then they freak out and you loose their friendships and access to their social circle(i.e. fuckable friends)

I would just sense when they are at their most attracted or vulnerable. then isolate them and start pumping sexuality and attraction for the "oops - one night stand" scenario. Until this opportunity presents itself, just tell them your "looking for your soul-mate" excuse, while systematically trying to get hooked up and fuck their friends.

Thanks for the advice I will definately try that. Do you think maybe in a non arrogant way slip out while I'm talking to them that I'm so tired of being used rather than understood when I bring up the looking for soulmate excuse?

yep I love that angle, its an effective twist.

Ill send you the one I use, via PM, you are welcome to copy it.